♥How can I handle conflict more better?

Question

I dont handle it very good and I just want to know hwo to handle it more better?

Answer 1

avoid it. (= and if you can't think before you act.

Answer 2

Question rather than contradict, posit rather than negate, offer what is more possible, do not immediately accept impossibility when you believe impossible, know why it is, know how it is, if not ask a question. When your spirit tells you something in feeling, be honest when it best suits the interest of peace. "You are angry" or "you are frustrated", these are claro words for feeling. Ask yourself 'do we need more negative now', but identifying what a person feels as negative is not negative from you, can they see that or do they get angry with you. If so they are not questioning but are accerting their beliefs. Are they true? Ask 'how do you know that' or 'why would I feel that'.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Conflict_resolution

"Conflict resolution or conflictology is the process of attempting to resolve a dispute or a conflict. Successful conflict resolution occurs by listening to and providing opportunities to meet each side's needs, and adequately address their interests so that they are each satisfied with the outcome. Conflict resolution aims to end conflicts before they start or lead to verbal, physical, or legal fighting.

More common but not popular with practitioners in conflict resolution is conflict management, where Conflict is a deliberate personal, social and organizational tool, especially used by capable politicians and other social engineers."

Answer 3

You have to sit down somewhere real quiet, and think it though.
You have to realize your limitations and stay with-in them. We all have our limits so you are not alone.
Try to think aabout how you have handled the last two conflicts and visualize how they would have turned out with out you. Look close how they turned out with you there.

Think of ways you could have handled them that would not stress you. Sometimes it's best to just walk away and think htings though. Go for adrive, or walk, listen to music, or write soemthing to free your mind.
Think of what eases your mind quickest, and things that you can do to clear confrontations up before they get out of hand.

Answer 4

for a practical book that is short and one of the best I know try this
http://www.amazon.com/Make-Peace-Anyone-Breakthrough-Estrangement/dp/0312310013/sr=1-2/qid=1161997528/ref=sr_1_2/002-3264774-9168848?ie=UTF8&s=books

some of the primary reasons for difficulty with conflict are fear of rejection, or the need to be safe ( right, in control)

So there are two things to do
1) acquire some skills as in the book
2) look inward to see how secure you are and look for a path that suits you to guide you to the realization that you are perfect just the way you are and that you really are safe
good luck

Answer 5

Compromise. Roll with the punches. Turn the other cheek. Avoid situations where there would be a conflict.

Answer 6

Best thing is not to take ie personally. When you do you end up taking it with you and dwelling on it.

Resolve conflict when you can and when you can't let it go.

Be strong. You are the only person that can control your mind.

Answer 7

By not handling it well, do you mean you get very emotionally upset? Or do you mean you lose a lot of conflicts?

Answer 8

follow the rule of counting 1 to 10, taking a deep breathebefore doing and saying anything!

Answer 9

By recognising the factors that cause a conflict and either accept and resolve it, or accept and endure it.

Answer 10

just remember that everyone is not right all the time. even ourselves. let the other person state their opinion and then give yours. remember that u do not have to change the other persons minds.

Answer 11

Take out yourself and all benefit to other. Later on You will have all.