I was wondering if I sounded attractive to men, since none of them had come out and asked me out or anything during the last YEAR except for total nerds.
I have light brown hair, 5'3", 112 lbs., 27" waist, hourglass body type, shoe size 7 (and I always wear high heels), green eyes, and I wear bright makeup. Not the usual eyeliner and lip gloss, as is the trend, but I'm talking faded red or mauve lipstick, blue or mauve eyeshadow, mascara, lip liner, eye liner, etc. Does wearing this much makeup repel guys or something? I have very pale skin and am terrified of getting sunburned. And everyone around me wants to go tan! Also, I wear clothes that are WAY out of fashion and sort of what you'd expect to see on a 30-year-old or something...I guess my look is...a bit too unusual...but do guys only go for teenage stereotypes or do they like something a little out of line? As in, an unusual sort of beauty?
2006-10-27 13:18:32 · 13 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't worry about your looks! It's your own unique style, and if you are comfortable with yourself, you should embrace that. Not having confidence in yourself is what turns men off. You have to like yourself before others like you. Just be yourself and the right man will come along. Good luck!
2006-10-27 13:27:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-22 01:58:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, everybodys standard of beauty varies. i look in the mirror and see red hair thats never in place, glasses that are kind of out there and zits,....but someone else might see red hair thats fun to play with, glasses that are cute, and zits that prove shes imperfect. So apply that to you! they see 5'3, 112 lbs, hourglass body type that you may see as AWFUL...but to any one guy the see you as perfect to hold, and beautiful to look at, and clothes and make up that show her for who she is! As in, not afraid to go against the trends or whatever. Guys are very strange...but isn't that why we love them?
2006-10-27 13:24:55 · answer #3 · answered by Rebekah A 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you are not confident enough... if you have to ask if you are sexy, then you obviously doubt yourself! Self-doubt does not attract men! Men are also not attracted to lack of confidence, a frumpy attitude or lack of personality. Once you get a handle on these things, you will be beating the guys off with a stick!
2006-10-27 14:01:04 · answer #4 · answered by Karena C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem in my male side.
The best Answer that was picked up suggested to move in other country. So maybe you should come to Italy and visit me!
Actually I dont know much about make up but I would not suggest to put too much of that "stuff" on your face for sure.
2006-10-27 14:10:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey nerds are sometimes cute!! If you want gangster type, you can NEVER be shy, and you gotta have big boobs and ***.
Oh and what do you look like without make-up? I know a lot of guys who just hate girls who wear too much, so don't show your fake face, show the real one! Sure put some make-up but you put on toooooo much.
2006-10-27 13:20:36 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st impressions are important but so is what is on the inside. Someone will see that you are a good person quirks and all and fall hopelessly in love with you. Or you may stay single. Either way be happy with who you are and that is more important than what ppl think of you.
2006-10-27 13:40:11 · answer #7 · answered by TotallylovesTodd! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girls can describe themselves ad nauseum in text and it still would never get the point across - us guys need to see a picture. your figure sounds nice, but dressing well is definitely a turn on. as for me (26), i prefer a girl who wears something sexy but not, as you put it, "teenage". the look usually includes some kind of form fitting jeans (NOT tapered ankle or soccer mom jeans, but preferably a boot cut, maybe low rise), a nice shirt, and sexy, dressy type shoes (usually heels).
i am a fan of pale girls, as long as you don't look like you have cancer or the flu or spina bifida. also, too much make up can be a real turn off. if you can put on make up and make it look like you are not wearing make up, you are doing something good and accentuating your natural good-looking-ness. you don't want to be a "transformer" (you know, looks good with make up on, but wake up in the morning and you are like "wtf!").
anyway, like i said before i can't judge without a picture, but it sounds like you should lay off the make up and dress more fashionably.
good day.
2006-10-27 14:20:02 · answer #8 · answered by General P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys go for someone who knows how to dress and carry themselves...Sorry, guys don't want to hang around someone who dresses or looks like Bubbles the happy clown. Tone down the makeup to neutral and dress better...Show the men how attractive you can be and I assure you, they will notice you more and ask you out.
2006-10-27 13:24:14 · answer #9 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like your wearing to much make up, and thats a turn off for a lot of men. I love green eyes. I bet if you wore less make up, men would notice your eyes more.
2006-10-27 13:28:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋