You know who the father is but your friend hasn't told them yet, should you?
2006-10-27 12:57:31 · 20 answers · asked by sexy babe 101 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Not unless the baby has been born....just wait till then.
2006-10-27 13:01:36 · answer #1 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not your buisness. That is something special for a woman to be able to tell. Maybe she is not sure who the father is... Or if she is going to keep the baby. Their are alot of different reasons for her not telling the man yet. Give her some time she will do it when and if the time is right. Good Luck
2006-10-27 13:07:15 · answer #2 · answered by The Landlord 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is your best friend, you won't go running off to 'baby daddy' blabbing your news. If your best friend's pregnancy hasn't been confirmed by a doctor/clinician, you could be causing more harm than good to all involved. If the pregnancy has been confirmed, you will stand by your best friend, support her, go with her to doctor's appointments...unless 'baby daddy' turns out to be an upstanding young man and goes with her because he's stepping up to take responsibility...but in the likelyhood that he's folded on her faster than Superman on laundry day, your best friend is going to need a very good friend indeed. So, nose on face and out of her business, but stand by for her if she needs you.
2006-10-27 16:49:23 · answer #3 · answered by Canadian Beaver 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. But you can help out your friend. Why hasn't she told him? Maybe she has good reasons. Offer her moral support. You question is in the adolescent section - is your friend young? Does she have adults helping her out? Make sure she has good support from caring adults also. They can help her deal with the father as she needs to.
2006-10-27 13:03:32 · answer #4 · answered by pamgissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
discuss it with the friend first becasue if you just go ahead and tell the father that hes the father you may ruin their relationship and most inportantly YOURS just tell her what you think and she mght give in to it but make sure you dont raise your voice and maybe yoyu dont want to start WITH THE SUBJECT instead maybe start it with the baby and then her and finallly go to the dad! i really hope everything goes fine!:)
2006-10-27 14:23:44 · answer #5 · answered by fefi76229 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you should its not your place to tell them.
maybe your best friend hasn't told them because she hasn't decided if she will keep the baby or not or maybe she has good reason for not telling him, which ever the situation is it's your friend responsibility to tell him.
im sure when the time is right for our friend she will tell him.
2006-10-27 22:20:56 · answer #6 · answered by rosierotweiller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, u shouldn't. don't get into her personal affairs, she's your best friend but you'd only be hurting her if u told the father. just think how would that benefit your friend, she would only lose trust in you.
2006-10-27 14:07:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If its a "happy" thing... don't ruin the chance she will get to surprise him.
If its not a happy thing... let her find the way of telling him. You could always go with her when she tells him, so she will have support.
2006-10-27 13:11:25 · answer #8 · answered by Ashley P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
support and encourage her. She needs to do the right thing by telling the father. You will probably loose her friendship if you tell him though.
2006-10-27 13:02:05 · answer #9 · answered by twildman22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice to you would be to stay out of it. I know its hard especially when its one of your bestfriends but part of being friends is letting her make her own decisions and just being there for her if things go wrong.
2006-10-27 15:51:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋