My bud and I have a true "brokeback moutain" relationship. Its very special and we have a strong bond. We both have two different backgrounds. I'm like Jack and he Ennis emotionally. He's an asipring artist, and I am into business. Were in our 20's and he chose to move to Europe. He asked me if I want to go, I said sure I want to be close to him, but things changed when I got accepted for a masters program at a business school in the US. I decided to stay and finish up. Now I feel like 2 years of school seems to be a long time, I hurt everynight thinking about losing him. It was a choice of my future or the "rare, weird" feelings we both have for each other. So my question to you is, did I pick the right path here? Was I right to choose my future over my heart?
2006-10-27 12:55:13 · 8 answers · asked by Dustin m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Please NO Jesus Talk!
2006-10-27 12:55:46 · update #1
Ultimately, you're number one. There's no promise or guarantee anywhere. You have to take care of yourself first. If it's meant to be between you two, you'll find a way. It may even be fun having that distance and missing each other. Stay as close as you can and look forward to the future...
2006-10-27 12:58:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
coming from a gay guy ... that's hard, i know i think about love a lot, and it is really hard to find a guy who is honest, and is really in it for you, and not just sex or what ever, but you also deff. should think about your future, i know that when i met a guy(the only guy like that) who describes what your are saying i would have done anything for him, walked across the world, but in all actuality, i think you did what is best, and looked out for yourself first. There will always be chances for love in your life, but there may not be chances furthering yourself as often.
Don't let go if you can help it, that's what I'd say, try and keep contact with him, keep him close, maybe you guys could go on your own little get-aways like in brokeback mountain and reunite every once in a while. If its meant to be, it will work out
2006-10-27 20:03:04 · answer #2 · answered by Jacob 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ummm, not sure how to answer this, cause i'm not gay,(if that's what you meant by "brokeback" and "feelings") but i wouldn't throw my life away for a girl, unless she was really special. and i mean really, like take a bullet for her. so unless you feel that way, choose future. the heart can be misleading, and keep you from thinking stuff over, and make you do dumb stuff. future
2006-10-27 20:05:56 · answer #3 · answered by Bruce Lee Reborn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are both young and still forming your future paths. However, if this is your relationship with the "one", then he'll still be available to you when you are ready. Two years is not really that long, especially if your love is meant to last.
2006-10-27 20:18:46 · answer #4 · answered by Sels 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think at this point in your life you made the right decision.
It sounds like you're just starting to live your life and it would have been wonderful to share it with him....but that wasn't going to happen.
Your feelings for each other if they're true will still be there 2 years from now and you'll have your Masters.
Good luck
2006-10-27 20:00:44 · answer #5 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Yes, you did the right thing. Your heart ain't gonna pay your damn bills. Two years will go by fast & you will have two incomes instead of just his. If he loves you he will wait for you.
2006-10-27 20:05:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think so choosing a career is intelligent and besides if your feelings and relationship were true it will still be there when your done. then you will have your relationship and be educated.
gl to you.
2006-10-27 20:02:42 · answer #7 · answered by me2 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well if no jesus talk is aloud. then i have this to say: eww dude stay on the straight path!
2006-10-27 19:59:00 · answer #8 · answered by masterurownmind 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋