My crush Jacob and me have been friends for 2 years now and last year he kinda advoided me for a couple of months until my best friend Amber went out with him well a week later he dump her because he was supposely gay but thats what she said to me. but this year he constantly flirts with me and when someone asks him if hes gay he says no i like boobies but i dont know if hes gay or not i think hes just trying to cover it up What Should I Do?
2006-10-27 12:51:42 · 7 answers · asked by pinkblonde14 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well, he may still be trying to figure it out for himself right now. He may be very confused. I have a best friend who is gay, and he didn't realize it for sure until a year after college. We would talk on the phone for HOURS into the wee hours, . . .it's very deep. There could be factors in his life such as things that may've happened to him as a child. Talk to him. GENTLY. No matter what, he will be lucky to have a friend like you :)
2006-10-27 12:55:21 · answer #1 · answered by misskenjr 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
ok assuming he's ur age (15) also... he's young and still growing up. he might be confused on the fact if he likes boy or girls... i remeber when i was fifteen and my best friend asked me out of the blue... "are you gay" and i told her "no i love britney spears... she's hot"... 5 years later here i am gayer than the day is long! lol... but maybe just maybe since you said that Amber told you that he broke up with her cause he's gay this could also mean that she's taking revenge on the break up by saying he's gay... for example: "if he doesn't like me no girl will have him! people of america Jacob is gay!" but thats what i'm getting from it.
now if you still want to know... heres a tip... ASK HIM! although i never liked getting asked if you really want to know, go ahead and ask him... but beware of the consquences and misleading information... he could either get mad or he can just easily tell you a lie like "i like boobies" or "i like britney spears... she's hot". but if he is... ur 15... theres plent of better hotter STRAIGHT guys out there. enjoy life and focus on school. laters... keep ur grades up!
2006-10-27 22:15:57 · answer #2 · answered by mr. don't know it all 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can invade his privacy but its none of your business. The last thing he needs is some chick dawdling about him with googly eyes. Take a hint. He's not interested in telling you his business. Flirting does not equate straight. Homo's are quite good at social interaction where "straight" girls get the wrong message. Try to be his friend .. don't try to jump his bones. Dig?
2006-10-27 20:27:07 · answer #3 · answered by Active Denial System™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you should try to sit down and talk with him, if you feel comfortable enough to do so, it sometimes is kinda hard to feel comfrtable at all, but he most likely is trying to figure himself out right now.....
2006-10-27 23:48:53 · answer #4 · answered by Mandy+Mark=Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont believe it till u hear it from the horses mouth
2006-10-28 07:58:29 · answer #5 · answered by Vinash 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know ...can you ask him if he's gay...he may tell you the truth if you are a friend of his.
2006-10-27 20:12:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would take him at his word unless he proves himself otherwise.
2006-10-27 19:56:35 · answer #7 · answered by on_the_move4ever 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋