okay..i totally ♥ this guy and hes 1 year older than i am...my big sis is one of his teachers and is one of his favorite 1s too(trust me on that) well, i dont go to his school,but i will next year.....he hardly knows me but he knows who i am and is friends with like half of my best friends..i know his email addresses but im a little shy and dont know if i should invite him to my list or what to do.........so, any advice????? it would really help! thanx!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-27 12:50:17 · 22 answers · asked by Counting the Days. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Get him on your list and e mail him.
2006-10-27 12:51:19 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol... I have some advice 4 u. First of all people r always shy when they have a crush on a guy. U could email him but there might be better ways. !rst of all, does he cheack his email all the time? If he does he will be able to cheack urs. U could say "Hey.. this is (ur big sis)'s younger sister. I heard so much about u and we sorda know each other, right? I was think i should know a little more about u. Since we r kinda like friends, but since I am going to ur school next year, well I kinda wana know u more... Sorry, I am a little shy at times. email me back if you could. :)
- (your name)
U could do something like that or go to ur sis's class or something to see him and have a conversation. If he says "R u asking me on a date?" u could say "Well, I don't think it is a date... It is a play-date (friend date) not a date date.."
If u ever date him and he turns out not ur type, don't let his looks get 2 u, do the right thing (personality)
2006-10-27 19:58:44 · answer #2 · answered by kool_gal_8888 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just go head and invite him to my list that will be the beginning of some thing the worst thing will be no respond (big deal) or may be you might get some answer from him, that way you don't wast time. I think it is better you let him know or start with the invitation on your list, it is better this way. I've been there but still re grate it that i didn't let him know about my feeling.
2006-10-27 20:12:06 · answer #3 · answered by mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha, I don't think that requesting him for your list is that big of a deal for him, but I understand where you are coming from. I was really nervous about sending an e-mail to this girl that I liked. Even though you may think it is a big deal, it is just a common action that most people do. Don't worry, go ahead and invite him. Good luck.
Have a nice day :-)
2006-10-27 19:54:42 · answer #4 · answered by drewfranklin4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just e-mail him! Do spell check and talk about something intelligent. It would be better if you would like to be his friend to get a line of communication going before going to his school and then trying to start up a conversation from scratch.
2006-10-27 19:59:39 · answer #5 · answered by marciacarter@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I know that you dont really love him. Secondly, If you like him a lot tell him. Become friends first. If he knows who you are then he wont think its weird that you are asking him to be on your list. He will just be like oh ok I know her sure I accept. Then just talk to him about mutual friends and then it will lead to other conversations and then you will be happily ever after.
2006-10-27 19:56:16 · answer #6 · answered by angel l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go Ahead do it. You Dont want to go through the "What If's?".You Can Only Lose by Holding Back.
2006-10-27 19:54:48 · answer #7 · answered by Lyndz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go ahead and take a chance. Email him and let him know u exist. Do not come on to strongly but let him know u wantto be his friend.
2006-10-27 19:52:27 · answer #8 · answered by Gabrielle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say 'Hi' to him in person, ask him a question about his hobbies (something of interest to him) and then let him wonder how you knew he was into that. This will perk his attention and if he likes you he will take an interest in you.
2006-10-27 19:52:54 · answer #9 · answered by pryopenmyeyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just invite him to your list if you really like him !! talk to him more and dress nicely i don't know maybe ask hi out trust me he'll love it i've been through this before
2006-10-27 19:53:58 · answer #10 · answered by cherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and e-mail him. You have nothing to lose. Just don't be crazy. Let him know you had noticed him. Then just be like wanna go out?
2006-10-27 19:53:54 · answer #11 · answered by JaNa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋