So, Im hoping that I am not the only girl here, seriously considering becoming a lesbian because they are so fed up with the bullcrap that guys dish out almost everyday. Its getting rediculous. Im deeply taking this into consideration, and I want to know if anyone else had thought about this, too. Girls just do it better, I guess. And that line can go a long way.
2006-10-27 12:32:02 · 19 answers · asked by Brittney 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I am bi. But I havent fully done anything with a girl, just kissing and stuff.
2006-10-27 12:38:41 · update #1
SFX.....I would, but you dont have any contact information honey!!!!!! Kisses
2006-10-27 12:40:57 · update #2
Its not for the "trendy" part of it at all. Thats dumb to think like that. I know what I want, and I know that a woman can give me that. Its not even for the sexual experiance. Its for the life experiances and the understanding that one woman can have with another, and the true, unconditional love that we can have between us. I understand that I can find that in a man, if I wait long enough, and want to put up with the drama that they bring. And I understand that women arn't prfect either, but there is something about a true womans love for another that I just really want in my life. And Im hoping that I find that soon.
2006-10-27 12:46:40 · update #3
Im sorry you feel this way. But Im gonna make it better.
2006-10-30 00:34:54 · answer #1 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't advocate being with anyone sexually unless you are sexually attracted to them or are doing it for a reason that both of you are aware of (prosttitution, etc.). Because unless someone sexually excites you, there's nothing in it, right? And if your answer is that they could, in some way, sexually excite you, then 'straight' isn't your middle name, it's something more like 'bicurious', 'bisexual', or 'other'.
And even if you were bisexual or had an attraction to women, being driven to them isn't the right way to choose a relationship. Could you imagine that conversation with your girlfriend? "Do you love me?" "Well, yeah, until a better guy comes along, sure." It won't end well, I can tell you that. Go after who turns you on, whatever that may be, and things have a chance of going wonderfully.
Believe me, there are great guys out there, just as much as there are insensitive, awful jerks. Even if all men were proven jerks, I couldn't advocate 'becoming a lesbian'. Can one even become something they are not? They can pretend, but they can't change (I'm not arguing that you're born gay, but rather, that to become a lesbian, you have to develop feelings for women, which don't sound like they're there).
Whatever you choose, be kind and good in your relationships. Here's to hoping that things work out well with your guy or gal!
2006-10-28 02:18:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't pay any attention to howard s. I think you'd make a hot lesbian. Just go with the flow. I've been with guys myself before I fully accepted the fact that I'm a pure les. Maybe this is the right path for you. Have fun experimenting! If I were in your area, I'd gladly be your specimen! lol! \m/
2006-10-27 20:34:19 · answer #3 · answered by - iceman - 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well, lets see, i would probably just stay bi, i mean girls do it better, yes, but i havent fully gone through the whole troubles with guys....yet anyways.....but i think if you keep looking you could find the right person, but there have been times that ive thought about becoming a lesbian
2006-10-27 23:51:59 · answer #4 · answered by Mandy+Mark=Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go get that bush my friend! Guys are freaks. May you find what you long for and be up to your ears in sweet bush. If i were you i would do the same thing.
And don't forget to eat the a s s ....lezzies luv that little extra finishing touch .
2006-10-28 19:49:48 · answer #5 · answered by zigzagidiot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its ok to be a lesbian, there are alot of lesbians out there. if your seriously considering it then i urge you to go on. Its not sumthing to be ashamed of. Im a lesbian and i turned out ok. I dont recomend sex immediately but its one of the best introductions to lesbianism. Just do what you think is ryt. good luck
2006-10-27 22:44:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only wanting to do this to impress the guys.
Sorry, kid, but lesbians don't want to be used any more than anyone else does; especially not as your hobby.
Grow up and treat people with respect.
2006-10-27 19:58:16 · answer #7 · answered by question_ahoy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm already a lesbian. Maybe you are not the only female considering becoming one. Good luck in your journey.
2006-10-27 21:55:21 · answer #8 · answered by Necole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you wanna become a lezbo so you dont have to deal with guys? c'mon...you should want to be a lezbo only if you don't like having sex with guys and find women more attractive. you should like sex with women because their skin is soft and smooth, they smell good, they're gentle, they have firm breasts.....woah....I'm getting a little carried away here... what i'm trying to say is you shouldn't dump guys..I tried to become a vegetarian once. lasted like 2 days..I had to have the feeling of chewing on something...same thing
2006-10-27 19:40:10 · answer #9 · answered by chicagobluesrules 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
women lie and cheat also,you can only be a lesbian if you are gay,otherwise your just experimenting,or you could be bi if you really are sexually attracted to women.but "turning lesbian" just because men are liars and cheats(and hun i know most of then are),that's not a real reason,play the field,don't commit,shop around and don't settle.but if you truly are attracted to females,then go for it.
2006-10-27 19:35:11 · answer #10 · answered by jen 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I understand what your sayin, but, just 4 ur info, i've never been kissed, but I wish it could be with another girl when I do get my first kiss. Shoot, I just wish I could met another girl that actually liked me like that.
2006-10-27 20:21:16 · answer #11 · answered by jcd_5_19_92 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋