I NEED SOME ADvice?

Question

MY FREAKIN best friend?
Last week, my friend got suspended for calling these guys the n-word. They were bothering her. She returned this week. Okay today someone girl asked her why she got suspended and she said because she called a ni**er a ni**er. I'm black so of course i was offended. Then at lunch they were playing hip hop music she was like they need to turn that ni**er sh*t off. Some girl she's hispanic was listening to hip hop or black music and she was like why do you listen to that ni**er sh*t, I listen to pure chicano rap. It's really beginning to piss me off. Well anyways, there was three white people at the table and she has some girl and tell them to get up and leave because this was pure Mexican table. Advice me please. I don't want to ditch because we have been friends for about four years now. I guess one of her other best friend who is 1/4 black 1/4 spanish and 1/2 native american is not talking to her at all. what should i do?

Answer 1

It's all about respect!!! If you do not have it you need to learn how to respect others!! It's has to do with being mature. The world does not revolve around you or your friends!!!!!!! Violence is always the easiest way to temporally solve problems that may arise. But in the end you and your friends need to get off their high horses and relax. There's always a bigger and badder person out there to put you in your place, why give them the luxury, Do it yourselves, you are humans not animals learn to live like one!!!!!!

Answer 2

Be there for her and check out and get her to speak to her mom and dad... By her speaking to them offers her extra choices on wether or no longer she needs to preserve it and even adoption she has extra choices now than she is going to later. Her mom and dad will uncover out ultimately simply ensure it is not to overdue. And be a well buddy and check out and aid/consultant her to make the offerings she needs and no longer what anybody "needs" her to do seeing that she am has to manage it afterward in existence it doesn't matter what she comes to a decision... And like the lady earlier than stated her mom and dad will develop to the thought and sure there is a hazard they are going to unfastened it however the will not do any harm her or the child. So inspire her to make her selections in an effort to improvement her ultimately.

Answer 3

it all depends on what you are willing to accept... shouldn't her behaviour be unacceptable to you because you disagree? You need to stand up for yourself because it's not just others she is name calling... it is you. She's just not big enough to stand there and say it to your face.
some point in this world pple are going to have to stand up for what is right and frankly wrong is wrong, no matter how you package it up,,, in this case a friendship. You need to explain to her that it hurts you and it is not only rude but disgusting behaviour. if she can't understand that, and recognize it, then you need to look elsewhere for friends. People who try to put on a big show are very insecure about themselves and it is not a good way to gain popularity, she may at first, but in the end she'll loose, and if you hang with that, your rep is in jeapardy too.