Me and 4 other guys all hang out at school but they talk about me and eachother behind their backs. They also never invite me places. They all go out to the movies or something after school and never tell me. And I feel so angry and leftout! Is their anyway to get them to start being a real friend?
2006-10-27 10:43:09 · 22 answers · asked by ♥ [þæ] ツ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I know how it feels to be left out. Sometimes my friend goes to parties and doesn't tell me about it. He'll tell me stories about how much fun he had and it's kinda messed up. If they talk about plans on going some where, u should tell them that ur available and would like to attend. If they say no, then they are not true friends. If they are ok with it, this may start a new trend of all of you guys hanging out.
2006-10-27 11:13:10 · answer #1 · answered by anonhelp555 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are not real friends. If they were they wouldn't talk behind each others backs. They also would have invited you to tag along with them. Find new friends. Or invite yourself to tag along....
2006-10-27 17:47:29 · answer #2 · answered by Ms.Deb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think the solution is tryin to make them ur friend. It sounds lik they arent bein too good of friends in the first place and if they aren't inviting u places it might b a hint that they dont think u shud be friends either
2006-10-27 17:46:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope... There's no way. Find some new friends. Friends aren't supposed to trash-talk each other behind each other's backs.
2006-10-27 17:45:32 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get some new friends lil homie!! : )So do you wanna go watch a movie later? And I'll even buy the popcorn!
2006-10-27 18:19:55 · answer #5 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No they aren't even good friends to each other. Obviously they don't like themselves very much to put each other down constantly. Find some new friends, real ones who don't make you feel like crap.
2006-10-27 17:48:07 · answer #6 · answered by ha 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want them as friends? Find someone who looks lonely and see if he wants to catch a movie with you.
2006-10-27 17:48:50 · answer #7 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get new friends. seriously if they dont invite you, they dont wanna be your friend, and dont stick a/r b/c it'll just get worse, from the way you asked the question you sound pretty sweet, and i dont think you'd have trouble making new friends, that would invite you everywhere!
Ashlyn
P.S. good luck!
2006-10-27 17:47:48 · answer #8 · answered by a 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a good way to get them to be better friends is to stop being their friends, don't sweat it! you seem way too to cool and too smart for that. just chill out don't hang with them or even try to be in their group. start your own click and they will see you don't even need them or their rudeness.
2006-10-27 18:22:45 · answer #9 · answered by catharina p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you can't make folks like ya, people either like you an want to hang with or they don't. Don't be stagnant fella move on make new friends.
2006-10-27 17:46:22 · answer #10 · answered by Jazz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋