heres the problem me and my ex split up when i was 14 weeks pregnant and when we was together he was like im goin to be a dad and then we split up and now he is tellin everyone that it is not his even thought it is and he dont want anything to do with the baby which is due on the 14 jan 07 and i dont know what to do now as i cant put his name on the birth certificate and i would need his national insurances number and he wont give to me aas he believes the baby is not his
and advice or help would be wonderful
2006-10-27 10:38:10 · 22 answers · asked by Cheeky 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
1. i didnt not sleep around (thts to siitupe)
2. i do want my baby i love him already
3. i dont believe in on cheating on someone so there is no doubt he is the father of my baby
2006-10-27 10:52:20 · update #1
i was on birth control (the pill) and used a condom but both failed
2006-10-27 10:53:49 · update #2
ONCE THE BABY IS BORN HAVE A DNA TEST! Then he will be known as a dead beat dad! Make him pay up! He will only be hurting himself! Men can't get away with this anymore!
2006-10-27 10:50:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to have his "number" to put his name on the birth certificate. If that was the case, then half the men out there would have unclaimed children. After the baby is born, you can have a DNA test done, and he will have to pay child support once it proves he's the father. Do NOT leave the birth certificate blank where it states who the father is! You will regret that, because it's harder to do it later. Good luck!
2006-10-27 10:57:48 · answer #2 · answered by Caelan's mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is wait until the baby is born and have a DNA test. If your ex refuses to be tested; you can go to court and get the court to order him to take the test.
If he is the baby's father then the court will make him support the baby. If he does have insurance and you are not legally married to him, then the insurance would not cover you anyway. However, he is responsible for a share of the hospital and doctor bills for the pregnancy and delivery.
You need to go to social services in your town and they will help you.
2006-10-27 10:56:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand it happend to me as well was so hard to hear him say this little baby was not his now with me I did not do A DNA test but I am not saying that would be a bad idea ...I let my man say it was not his took time for him to see that this was his baby and he needed to be there.. Try talking to him even if it comes to it have him go with you to get a DNA test before your baby is born hunn if that dont help.. no matter what happens you can still make it with out a guy but still if it provs to be his and he dont want to be there try geting child suport so you are not paying for it all ...good luck
2006-10-27 11:01:28 · answer #4 · answered by Heather marie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"the only element she is doing in coaching for the toddler is paying for clothing and decorations for the room. She would not comprehend the gender yet is confident it is going to likely be a woman. She is going a palm reader and gets readings of the toddler's previous lives" Dude she looks like a thoroughly popular 20 year previous lady, nevertheless you probably did tell her you didnt want to have the toddler? and now you do? in case you do want to have the toddler, wake that fking fool lady up one way or the different and tell her whats happening, else gtfo
2016-10-16 11:39:03 · answer #5 · answered by pachter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't believe the baby is his you won't be able to convince him until a paternity test is taken showing that he is the Father. Sorry for your misfortune. Keep in mind that you and your baby are better off with out a dead beat dad.
2006-10-27 10:44:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey are you sure you want to keep this baby there is no shame in saying no. you have a whole lot of living and learning to do. You are not going to convince him if he has his mind made up its not his,after the baby is born you can do a paternity test. the hospital will ask you who the father is and you can put any name on the birth certificate you want. who cares who all hes telling-hes the one lookining quilty trying to convince others its not his, get help thru welfare for bills and they will help you decide what is best for you.WHERES YOUR MOTHER?
2006-10-27 10:44:43 · answer #7 · answered by goldenscorpia 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take him to court and have them order him to pay for a DNA test. When the test comes back that it is his baby they will put in an order for child suppport...and most likely if he has a job they will garnish his wages.
2006-10-27 10:43:37 · answer #8 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For now, a paternity test. For the next boyfriend, birth control.
2006-10-27 10:47:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DNA testing. It will prove that your baby is his. You don't have to put his name on the certificate, especially if you don't want custody problems later on. Good Luck and congrats on the baby!
2006-10-27 10:42:32 · answer #10 · answered by jamiasl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋