My ex-husband is a severe alcoholic and now that we are divorced he spends every weekend getting drunk with his neighbors who are also drunks and the wife is bi-sexual and just plain nasty. Before the divorce, he could not stand these people but now he spends every weekend partying with them. What gives??
2006-10-27 10:33:29 · 22 answers · asked by Queen Bee 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
because he likes alcohol. he doesn't care who his company is.
2006-10-27 10:35:30 · answer #1 · answered by Grasshopper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-03 00:56:14 · answer #2 · answered by fritch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Queen Bee: Doesn't that confirm for you how wise you are to have made the decision to divorce this man. Just thank your lucky stars you are no longer involved. There are many women who struggle a life time trapped in marriages with severe alcoholics. If I were you, I wouldn't waste any more time even thinking about the choices he is making. Obviously, he is making the wrong life choices and continues to head for disaster.
Enjoy your freedom and move on.
2006-10-27 10:37:53 · answer #3 · answered by Jo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex-husband is dyfunctional and chooses to hang out with the same kind of people. He's also self-destructive and uses these people as an excuse to drink. You were smart to leave this loser behind. Nothing good will come of his hanging with these people. I hope you are on to better things in your life without this albatross (ex) around your neck!
2006-10-27 10:36:26 · answer #4 · answered by cheyennetomahawk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alcoholics like to hang out with other alcoholics so they can get drunk and stupid together. Losers hang out with losers. He's your ex husband, what he does in his free time is none of your business anyway. Let him go, you cannot save him. It's up to him to realize he needs to change.
2006-10-27 10:39:29 · answer #5 · answered by funandsun20 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe before the divorce he couldnt stand them and once you seperated , the divorce and the alcohol made him see them in a different light, maybe he secertly wanted to party and by saying he did not like them at least to him self he could pretend that he did not want to be that way.. or he could be so hurt that he dont care who he keeps company with aslong as they drink with him
2006-10-27 10:39:24 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish alcohol wasn't a problem for people. It can cause so much pain and can break up families and marriages and that totally sucks.
He doesn't care about anything including himself. TRY not to let it bother you. (I know that's hard though)
2006-10-27 10:41:09 · answer #7 · answered by Amaya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he's an alcoholic who has no other friends.
Because he's depressed, hates being alone, and desperate for friends.
Many reasons.
That's usually the typical alcoholic.
2006-10-27 10:36:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was married to you. You gave up on him.
Did you forget why you took a liking to him, grew to love him, Married him? Seems like you did.
He probably did not like them because he wanted to stay with you.
Now he has nothing why do you criticise the people he now hangs with? Come to that why are you concerned?
Seems to me the question is more about your feelings than about him!
2006-10-27 10:38:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Birds of a feather flock together.
2006-10-27 10:42:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1: not your problem
2: doesn't matter
3: maybe you should consider not what your ex husband is doing on the weekends, but what you could be doing instead of thinking about him.
2006-10-27 10:37:23 · answer #11 · answered by David R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋