my friend is not saying anything to me and not saying hi and she has been my best friend 4 years and i dont no what to do help me!!!!! :(
2006-10-27 10:31:07 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
did you do something like steal your bestfriends bf/gf, or something? just ask your bestfriend, and if your best friend doesnt answer grab your bestfriends hand and make him/her talk to you
2006-10-27 10:35:15 · answer #1 · answered by justin_shore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you have known this person for 4 years should give you some understanding about them. It seem like should know the reason why the're are not speaking you. Since you don't know, I would recommend finding out by asking them is there anything wrong with them. People tend to be distance when something are bothering, so I would not take it personally regardless of the outcome. A good friend don't walk away when things get hard.
2006-10-27 17:38:18 · answer #2 · answered by uky32 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down is the 1st thing. 2nd just talk to her she may be having different feelings bout u or she can't hang with u. Do not take it serious though talk to her. Pull her to the side away from other people and talk bout it, if she does not say hi to u when u say it to her. 4 years is alot 4 friends. She is probaly having problems wit som1 or somthing. She is afraid or mad. Just talking to her is the best thing though. Hope it helps.!!!
2006-10-27 17:37:51 · answer #3 · answered by sexyme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to sit down and talk with this person and find out why she is avoiding you. Invite her over for a coke or sleep-over and find out what is going on. Worst case scenario, stop her and face to face ask what is wrong.
2006-10-27 17:35:15 · answer #4 · answered by loufedalis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to her, or email her. If she doesn't respond, play the same game she is, ignore her back. I had the same problem last month, and I played the same game. Eventually, the person spoke with me again and said sorry.
2006-10-27 18:16:43 · answer #5 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to give her a little time to get over whatever it is that is bothering her. Then try to approach her again. Don't keep asking her what is wrong. I find that sometimes feeds people's anger.
Sorry you are sad.
2006-10-27 17:35:25 · answer #6 · answered by The It Girl ∆☻乐 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to e-mail her or text her and ask her what's wrong. Ask her if you two can get together to talk.. Obviously something is wrong here. It would be sad to see the friendship die after 4 years.
2006-10-27 17:33:10 · answer #7 · answered by cheyennetomahawk 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i would try ask her to her face what is wrong. you deserve to know if you did something wrong and if you did, you could try to fix it. if she wont allow you to even ask that, i say that obviously your guys' friendship wasnt that important to her. otherwise she would want to work it out right away. i suggest looking for a new friend if it continues the way it is right now.
2006-10-27 17:37:51 · answer #8 · answered by mariah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has she ever don that before? If she has then I think it's time for a new best friend. Or thy confronting her and seeing what's wrong.
2006-10-27 17:35:10 · answer #9 · answered by The wwe diva of 2010 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a wise man once said" absenance make the heart grow fonder"
thus,take a half-step back,if you trued reaching out.let her realise the quality of your friendship
purple friendy
2006-10-27 17:36:48 · answer #10 · answered by purpleman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋