After me and my boyfreind had an argument i decided to take sometime to think things thru.and reflect on the relationship.he thot id wanted to break up so he got another girl but when i told him i wanted to talk and sort things out before we continue he told me he had another girl and explained he was too heart to cope with the pain so he rushed to get (rebound)someone to ease the pain ..since he thought it was the end of us after the attempts to talk to me failed. i love this guy but now the problem is he is in a dilemma.he texted me and said he would have wanted us to continue but because of the girl involved.its proving difficult as he is scared of breaking her heart.so thing is what should i do i love this guy to bits please advise
2006-10-27 10:21:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
get another boy freind
2006-10-27 10:23:54 · answer #1 · answered by Neil G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and he had a disagreement and you wanted to take time to think things through he should have respected that. The fact that he ran out and got another girl so quickly is a sign of immaturity. If he cares about you the way you seem to care for him he should have wanted time to find out what was going to come of your relationship before attempting to move on to the next one. From what you are saying it just seems like he would use any excuse to say next please. Be careful with your heart, it can only take being broken so many times before the damage becomes permanent.
2006-10-27 10:27:57 · answer #2 · answered by bttrfly0724 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear!
I am sorry, but I c that this guy doesn;t love u as much...
If he misunderstood ur reaction as breaking up.. I would expect him to be broken hearted, I woudl expect him to try to make it up with u, do & u did & think things over, try to ease ur anger, buy you flowers & take u to dinner to discuss ur relationship.. rather than with another lady already!!!!
This is not a guy you can feel secure with, I am actually happy for you that things happend this way & that he revealed himself so quick...
I am sorry, I know this might hurt, but I guess such a man is not worth ur trust, ur love, ur devotion.. etc.
My friend, he deserves u NOT.. Move on with ur life till u find the man who appreciates u!
2006-10-27 10:37:31 · answer #3 · answered by Ouzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has moved on, so you should too. Or he can break up with the new girl.
2006-10-27 10:23:22 · answer #4 · answered by Shawn_small 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here's what you should do!! you should find a perfect guy for this other girl and then try to convince your boyfriend as possible to go back with you talk to the other girl tell her the truth she'll undertand
2006-10-27 10:25:27 · answer #5 · answered by cherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he truly loves you he shouldn't worry about the other girls feelings. If you're the one he wants he should do whatever it takes to come back to you. If he hasn't left her, maybe he has feelings for her?
2006-10-27 10:28:23 · answer #6 · answered by AngelLuv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some space!!! if he loves u too, or if he's worth being in your life he'll return!!! he realiuze how much he needs you, and cares abotu you, while not spending time with you!!!
2006-10-27 10:24:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave that busta alone. He is just using excuses. If it is meant to be it will just give him some space to make up his mind.
2006-10-27 10:24:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really loved you he would of waited longer to get another girl and he would of broke up with her the momment you wanted to get back with him
2006-10-27 10:25:09 · answer #9 · answered by jack jack 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well does he love u, thats the point. If he loves u it doesn't matter who he is with
2006-10-27 10:26:33 · answer #10 · answered by Kenneth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋