After me and my boyfreind had an argument i decided to take sometime to think things thru.and reflect on the relationship.he thot id wanted to break up so he got another girl but when i told him i wanted to talk and sort things out before we continue he told me he had another girl and explained he was too heart to cope with the pain so he rushed to get (rebound)someone to ease the pain ..since he thought it was the end of us after the attempts to talk to me failed. i love this guy but now the problem is he is in a dilemma.he texted me and said he would have wanted us to continue but because of the girl involved.its proving difficult as he is scared of breaking her heart.so thing is what should i do i love this guy to bits please advise
2006-10-27 10:21:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This happened to me. Now 18 years later we are married to other people, with children, and I am still in love with him. If the boyfriend won't break up with this other girl just stay friends with him and wait - this is where I regret what I did, I had too much pride to wait and now greatly regret that decision. Otherwise you might find that your timing is always off (one of you always with other people). Stay in touch and wait. If you get sick of waiting and find yourself attracted to someone else than at least you know it was not meant to be. Otherwise you can be ready to move in when its over with this girl. I wish someone had given me this advice then!
2006-10-27 10:43:37 · answer #1 · answered by I'm Trying 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sell off him - he's a loser. initially - if he became that heart broken over you interior the 1st place you do no longer purely flow out and get your self a sparkling female chum. A one evening stand in keeping with possibility on account which you sense low, your inebriated, and you have the 'properly screw her if she would not choose for to be with me' attitude. 2d of all - he's petrified of breaking her heart? provide me a injury. How long have they been mutually? Your placed up makes it sound very modern-day. Is the lady that for the time of love with him already? What an inflated ego. 0.33 - If he fairly enjoyed you he does no longer be together with her. era. He does no longer have began up together with her interior the 1st place and he extremely does no longer nonetheless be persevering with to be certain her if there became even a distant possibility which you 2 ought to artwork issues out. He ought to be doing regardless of he can to get you back - no longer any incorrect way around. This guy is a canines and thinks he can play the two certainly one of you. and you, expensive, are letting him. What he's doing isn't love.
2016-11-25 23:49:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so he'd rather break your heart then break her heart? looks like he already made a choice.
you have your answer.
2006-10-27 10:31:10 · answer #3 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋