I am on my own every weekend, i used work in a nightclub, but the hours are a killer on top of a full time job. i do have kids, but they are older and they don't want too hang with there mum....whats a girl to do?
2006-10-27 10:15:32 · 10 answers · asked by untanuta 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
all my mates are single and are in same boat!
2006-10-27 10:21:23 · update #1
I do not have a free weekend..the kids are here, they are 12 &14
2006-10-27 10:22:55 · update #2
right..have done done speed dating...a room full of dwarfs
2006-10-27 10:24:12 · update #3
CHURCH GROUP!!!!! OH do me a favour
2006-10-27 10:25:57 · update #4
kids are at a betweem age you can not leave a 12 & 14 on there own, its wrong!
2006-10-27 10:28:11 · update #5
12 & 14 is such an awkward age!!
2006-10-27 10:29:12 · update #6
You're a nice looking girl, I'm sure someone will come knocking on your door, just be patient.
2006-10-28 08:52:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here is my extended answer, for some reason my security software won't let me email you back...
volunteer for homeless shelter, battered woman shelter, dog pound, your church or synogague activities, a hospital....whatever it is you are interested in. That will get you out of the house and hopefully you will meet like-minded people.
Or, if you like children, you can start babysitting on the weekends. As a mother of two little ones I can't tell you how hard it is to find people willing to babysit on Sat night. Once a month that might be a nice thing for you to do for some extra money but also give you time to do other things.
Lastly, you can commit to inviting friends over for a dinner party once a month. We do that and its fun. Even when you don't know the people that well, invite 3-5 people over and serve wine and its guaranteed to be fun and interesting :0-).
There. Now I wish someone could answer my questions so easily! :-)
2006-10-27 17:18:38 · answer #2 · answered by I'm Trying 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a Man, or Friends, Find a Life Babe!
You better get up and do something cauyse sitting at the computer is not a hobby, or a sport.
Shopping is almost a sport, and a hobby if you can afford it, and even if you can't afford it.
Join a church group cause the're free, and you always meet nice folks.
or Bowling groups, and crap like that.
See I like movies so I rent a crap load of um snuggle up with a good warm Blanket , and read, watch the movies, snack , crochet baby blankets, and Sex up my man in the middle of the afternoon. An think of new ways to surprise him .
If you don't have a man then like i said go to single parent groups , widow, volunteer, no BARS- study groups, and colleges- even for us older gals.- but church groups are easiest. and ( incase you were wondering they ask for sex too , but just pretend other wise)
Plus guy friends introduce you to new friends ect..
so gl
2006-10-27 17:23:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get your self dolled up and get out.. your kids are grown up they don't need mummy round anymore ..
join clubs ask a neighbor or a Friend to come with you try one of these 1 min chat dating clubs were you chat for a minit and move on to the next at the end you make a choice if with person you liked the most and its fun
2006-10-27 17:21:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy your free time to do for you. You have no idea how many woman would love to have a free weekend every other weekend. Your time.... read a novel, swim at the gym, exercise, walk, rent a movie, take a nice bath, do for you. Please, I would love to be free every other weekend to take care of me. You spent all your years taking care of the kids, now time for you!
2006-10-27 17:20:32 · answer #5 · answered by flower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad age for the kids....anyone you bring into your life is only going to be resented by the kids...there going to feel like mom is being stolen from them. Anyone new is going to become the enemy.
2006-10-27 22:40:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop by, I'll throw some veggie kabobs on the grill and we can watch Firefly
2006-10-27 17:17:53 · answer #7 · answered by Rich B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
check your area of the u.k. to see if you have what's called single parents with kids as they set up functions where you can met a guy with kid(s) and be able to do things together with them.
2006-10-27 17:46:20 · answer #8 · answered by hollywood71@verizon.net 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find people her age
2006-10-27 17:17:12 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ENJOY YOUR SOLITUDE
2006-10-27 17:18:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋