My main turn on is comfort, and I dont know if its normal, or if anyone is the same. Like I find snuggling up, hugging, all those kinds of things a real buzz, and I used to get turned on when my ex wore tracksuits or comfy clothes etc. Is this normal? I just feel like i'm on me own :(
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2006-10-27 10:12:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's nice to feel nice!..
2006-11-04 08:06:20 · answer #1 · answered by ♪♫♪♫♪♫♪♪♫♪♪♫♪♫♪♫♪♪♫♪♫♪♫♪ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not on your own - but not many blokes have the balls to admit real women and good old fashioned closeness and affection do it for them as well if not better than a high maintenance glammed up centrefold. And sadly a lot of girls nowadays seem to have been brainwashed into believing being a pouting size six siren is what sex appeal is all about, and may well find a man who values more honest and homely affection a bit of a puzzle.
Which is a great pity - I can't remember how many agony column letters I've read from women bemoaning the fact their man just sems to want quick unemotional sex, and won't show them the affection and hugged up cuddles that they would find a turn on. Just having your man touch or stroke your hair (or arm, or back or whatever) and smile at you as he walks past now and then is a huge turn on for most of us. When my chap gets in from work I unfailingly get a proper hug, which usually leads to a bit of smoochy kissin', and a grope and a giggle, and now the kids have flown more often than not the jog suit in a pile on the floor by the bed;-) After 22 years together, I'd say I'm pretty lucky.
I hope you find the kind of partner who you deserve and who will appreciate she has a smashing and loving REAL man, who loves and is turned on by her for herself and not because she spends half her life and twice her income trying to look like some wannabe bimbo.
2006-10-27 20:25:17 · answer #2 · answered by categ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being comfortable around someone is the ideal turn on if you feel like you can slob out in joggers then you are at the ultimate level of comfort. everyone likes cuddling and a snuggle on sofa especially in cold weather...it's completely normal
2006-10-27 19:47:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is completely normal. u like when they are themselves and u feel like urself. i get turned on by my bf wearing baggy shorts and no shirt playing football with his buddies. everyone likes what they like. i think it is completely normal and totally cute. i love to cuttle to who says it isnt a turn on the guys show they have a sensitive side and its hott! If what u like isnt normal than im not normal either.( at least u know ur not alone) lol
2006-10-27 20:59:48 · answer #4 · answered by practicully_famouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing better than snuggling up on the sofa with the one you love,it makes you feel all warm inside
2006-10-27 18:15:33 · answer #5 · answered by kelly k 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not to worry. It's absolutely normal.
2006-10-28 03:33:30 · answer #6 · answered by Tashi Khoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you're very normal. comfort is good and safe. do what makes you happy. good luck and lots of popcorn with the movies.
2006-10-27 17:16:13 · answer #7 · answered by WAKE UP 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Very normal and very cute. My bf is the same.
2006-10-27 23:55:46 · answer #8 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
comfort means approachable, loose, huggable. you are not alone. i feel more cuddlely when my man is out of his work clothes and i am out of mine.
2006-10-27 17:19:34 · answer #9 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why shouldn't it be normal? I just wish my bloke would find my track-suit sexy as well!!
2006-10-27 17:16:33 · answer #10 · answered by Cold Bird 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are normal don't worry
2006-10-28 13:40:15 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋