I have told her again and again that she is being really silly but she never listens to me. She has been looking all washed out and ill recently especially in the mornings, and her bf got drunk, got off with someone else and texted her saying he didn't like her anymore. They are back together but I am still worried about her. Her family is not very close and doesn't like her much and her bf is 15 too. I know it isn't really any of my business but I can't help worrying and now she is being really nasty to me saying that I'm too young to worry especially as I have never had a bf and a load of other stuff and I don't know what to do, so please tell me what I can do.
2006-10-27 10:02:59 · 33 answers · asked by trust_amy 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
It is NOT me I am talking about I am sane!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! + I have never had a bf in my entire life hence the fact lauren is being horrible to me. if you think i have time for a boyfriend esp to do that with him try reading my other questions and you'll find out you are wrong!
2006-10-29 03:02:43 · update #1
Thank you for answering I do appreciate it and it is helpful.
2006-10-29 03:04:09 · update #2
She may be pregnat cause you know morning sickness and stuff. Ask her. Your her friend she should tell you. And if she is it would be best to tell someone
2006-10-27 10:06:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very sad that she has got into this situation so young, but there is little you can do. What does YOUR mum think?
If the girl's own parents are not interested, i can't see what you can do, except continue to be a friend to her.
Social services wouldnt be interested either, i imagine, as she will be 16 in a year or less, and therefore at the age of consent. Also she is consenting now!
Its a shame she doesnt take your concern seriously but you cant put an old head on young shoulders.
2006-10-30 20:36:43 · answer #2 · answered by Caroline 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is not much you can do sweety sorry. Your friend has made her bed now has to lie in it. You can be there for her and tell her so. Her comment about you never having a bf seems to me she wishes she did not now either. You can never get back what you give away and deem no big deal. She could be sick and she could be pregnant. You could try a mental health clinic if any are in your area for advice on what to look for and or do. Sorry if this does not help but hands here are tied.
2006-10-27 10:10:08 · answer #3 · answered by picture 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you head into town one day say you need to go to an appointment and could she go with you. but bring her to someone like a psychiatrist instead, trick her into it for her own good. she needs to have someone sit there with her and help her with whats going on and where her future is going. she needs to value herself as a person and at 15 its just too easy to get sucked under. if you respect yourself, others will respect you. its taken a while for me to get myself sorted out and its only when i made the biggest mistake of my life that i can now see that i was a mess and crying out for help. i needed help and now your friend does. i wish i had someone to stop me doing the most stupid thing ive ever done but the one person that could have walked away without realising what i would do. shes fortunate that she has you as a friend.friendships get u thru the toughest of times. all the best and remember your friend is a mirror as to how your life could be like. always always be wise and think before you do things. ur life will be so amazing if you do. all the best and try let me no how it goes. Jo
2006-10-27 12:09:55 · answer #4 · answered by sansamour 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I thnk your friend is acting weirdly because she is pregnant and she isn't speaking to you properly because she is afraid and thinks that you are too young to help her. I think she also feels that she doesn't want to tell you too much because of your innocence. If she comes over to your home tell your mother quietly to speak to her. She obvously needs some sort of help.If she is pregnant she would be too scared also to let her family know and if she isnt helped she can mess up her life completely if the guy deserts her. Please dont do as she has done and spoil your life at such an early age.
2006-10-27 10:14:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Her boyfriend is either a bad influence on her, or she is on him. Her family problems may be the outlet for this behaviour, as if she acts badly to get away from life and have fun. Leave her be for now, but if you get even more worried, talk to her and express your worries for her and maybe she'll cme rund or even feel the same way as you. Hope this helps xxx
2006-10-27 23:51:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
how long has it been since she started acting this way? It's scary but i think she might be pregnant, 15 is too young to even be thinking about sex! Thats A LOT of responsibility to be taking on! Just stick with her even if she is mad at you for caring, she'll thank you in the long run! Hang in there!
2006-10-27 17:11:50 · answer #7 · answered by tiff-renea 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your a good friend by the sounds of it, well as she is pushing you out, just be there as a friend to pick her up when she's down, sounds like she will need you soon anyway as a shoulder to cry on when things go wrong with her b/f. just say nothing and carry on being a friend, i know it may be hard for you to say nothing when you can see she is going to get hurt, but if she isn't accepting help from you what can you do?
2006-10-27 10:08:26 · answer #8 · answered by zeldieuk2002 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nickcap spoken like a true virgin asshole! Amy there is really nothing you can do about your friend except maybe be there to talk about other things. I think you are maybe letting yourself worry about a lesser matter because it distracts you from worrying about your mums disability maybe?
2006-10-29 04:20:51 · answer #9 · answered by patricia m 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she says that your getting all up in her buisness, then just say "your making this my buisness and besides, if I wasn't your friend would I even care about you?"
If she says "you have no idea what I'm going through." you can say "I probably have no clue but I know that you need help and that you need to stay away from that boy."
2006-10-27 11:11:28 · answer #10 · answered by qtpie16707 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋