in a relationship everyone claims things are equal but when push comes to shove ,and there is a conflict one person is ultimately the dominant decision maker, either because one person wants the relationship less, this person is usually the winner, or other power issues such as someones integrity is more intact than the others or money, intellect or manipulative or aggressive personalities, which person are you? why? and what are your weapons of choice for power.
2006-10-27 09:27:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I can be both. Read a book called Stop Walking on Eggshells by Paul Mason and Randi Kreger. It is an extremely dynamic book and explains alot of these scenarios you are writing about. It can be a real eye opening book and it can help you decide what kind of relationship are you really choosing and why. It changed my life. I changed from a ranting, confused unhappy, dominated person to a pretty carefree, happy individual.
2006-10-27 09:36:22 · answer #1 · answered by juncogirl3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well of course I'm the boss, sometimes, but I'm taking applications, what are you qualified to do? And if I put you in charge, are you firm?
2006-10-28 02:27:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess that I am the boss when we are fighting, but this is quickly changing. My favorite weapon is guilt. lol Yes, this is sad, but true and I AM working on it.
2006-10-27 16:42:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weapons in any relationship can only lead 2 distruction...{:-[}.
2006-10-27 16:37:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am the revolving door always
2006-10-27 17:20:10 · answer #5 · answered by STORMY K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋