i was pregnant with twins a boy and a girl. i miscarryed in my fifth month it was very painfull. but now i realize that i want a baby more than anything they never told me the reason this happened.im scared it could happen again.
2006-10-27 09:22:13 · 9 answers · asked by pamela b 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
i had twins a boy and a girl i realy want another baby but i am scared to miscarrage again i asked the doctor what happened he told me not to worry but he never told me what went wrong ive asked him serveral times i was five monthes pregnant when this happened and it was so painfull
2006-10-27 10:10:07 · update #1
i i asked the doctor what happened he told me not to worry but he never told me what went wrong i 've asked him serveral times i can noit get any answers out of him i did't get my first ultrasound until i was five monthes to thats when i found out i was having twins did't have a clue up until then two days after my ultra sound they were gone funny you don't expect stuff like that to happen
2006-10-27 10:14:02 · update #2
The only way to know for sure is to go for it! It can be so disheartening to lose a pregancy...one baby or two....There should be no reason why you can't start trying again unless your doctor gave you a specific time frame.
I had a miscarriage in August and was pregnant again by November...and carried the baby without a problem! Today he is a very happy and healthy 8-year-old.
I was also scared to try again, but wanted to start my family more than anything. I got the okay from my doctor and away we went. Your doctor may want to watch you a little more carefully during those first few months to make sure that the baby is developing normally, see a heartbeat and so forth.
Make sure that you know your blood type so that can be ruled out as the reason why you were unable to carry to term.
Good Luck & Happy Trying!
2006-10-27 09:43:20 · answer #1 · answered by Older Sister 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want a baby, then yes, go for it. I had a miscarriage last year in July. When we first found out I was pregnant that time, my hubby and I weren't sure we wanted another one so soon (we had a 6 month old at the time). After the miscarriage, we both realized how much we really wanted that baby. My Dr told me to wait until I had two normal periods, then we could try again. Well, I ended up pregnant after one normal period. I had a health baby boy in May of this year.
There are many reasons women miscarry, but I learned after my miscarriage that sometimes things happen for a reason. It's not always for us to know why our path was chosen as it is. Good luck with whatever you decide.
2006-10-27 09:57:23 · answer #2 · answered by Stacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While it would be a good idea to talk with a doctor, the truth is, very rarely do we ever know what caused a miscarriage. You had twins which could be a cause.
Losing a pregnancy between 14 and 20 weeks suggest something called Incompetent Cervix. Basically, your cervix may be too weak to hold in the pregnancy. Some doctors will try progesterone. Some may try a cerclage, a stitch that keeps the cervix closed. Some will try nothing and see what happens with the next pregnancy.
2006-10-27 09:45:51 · answer #3 · answered by Mika M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel you are emotionally ready, then you should start trying. I had a misscarriage at 4 months.. I had a girl, they never told me either what happened and I don't know what happened t her afterwards ( I was sooo out of it, emotionally) it took me a year to recover with some councilling) Now I have a 21 moth old and while I was on the pill... surprise I became pregnant 3 months after giving birth to my fisrt son...Time will heal your pain, but it won't make you forget your angels...and you don't want to forget them...I am sorry for your loss... I understand
2006-10-27 11:32:30 · answer #4 · answered by Lovebeingamom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would suggest asking your doctor what happened.. you carried them for 5 month you deserve an explanation. If there was something wronf with your body that caused the miscarriage, then you need to find out what it was, so it won't happen again. But it boils down to if your emotionally ready. If you are, then go for it. I wish you the best!
2006-10-27 09:39:25 · answer #5 · answered by Allycea's Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you should try for a baby and you are emotionally ready after the miscarriage then you go for it. Try when you are ovulating and keep your mans temperature down as sperm do not like high temperatures.Also keep yourself hydrated,eat healthily and do some light excercise daily.
2006-10-27 10:55:36 · answer #6 · answered by J o a n n e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would definatley try again. miscarriages usually happen because the baby isn't developing correctly. talk to your doctor about any questions have about the previous pregnancy and maybe get a little reassurance. good luck!!
2006-10-27 09:50:27 · answer #7 · answered by atruddie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it babe!
Good Luck!
2006-10-27 09:41:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They why have you not asked??????????? Go in for a check up ask questions/????????????????? Then go for it if the coast is clear.
2006-10-27 09:52:21 · answer #9 · answered by picture 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋