I suppose i really don't need to give much detail, but anyway.
People I've known in the past just want me for "a purpose".
I've bin f**ked over more times than I can count.
And stalked by the obsessive.
Please let me know that the world isn't completely full of A**holes.
2006-10-27 09:17:47 · 19 answers · asked by Ontol 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
God I love you people.
You make me feel ok to be alive, and WITHOUT drugs, how good is that?
2006-10-27 10:25:09 · update #1
hey I'm putting this one to a vote.
Well some peops need that one point!!!!
so anyway thank you for not mocking (obviously!) and i guess I'll mail ya.
Laters
2006-10-29 10:23:10 · update #2
This isn't exactly the best place to look for new friends honey. No, the world is not completely full of *******, but there are plenty of them.
2006-10-27 09:19:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your never alone and i can honestly relate to how your feeling in a big way.
We are trying to figure out why people are like this too, all the time.
The best way i have been able to figure it out and cope is this:
Genuine friendships are what we really want. Genuine means that the other person just wants you to be happy and only wants the very best for you no matter what. They NEVER ask for anything from you because they have the self confidence, self esteem and self worth about themselves to satisfy ANY material wants and needs that they have for themselves without asking you for anything. All they want is to be able to share their lives, and experiences with you and grow as individuals and as a group or couple with you and only you.
We want and need open communication. Feeling free to be able to talk to someone about everything or anything at any given moment will build trust. This is very important to us.
Yes, i've been screwed over by nearly 99% of all the people i've never known as well. The 1% that is left are the people i really need to be with now.
It helps to have a zero tolerance towards anything less , i know.
Mostly everyone out there is just out for themselves and/or for money too. It is sad. they just can't give us enough of stupidity as well when they use us.
2006-10-27 16:24:11 · answer #2 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The world is full of all sorts of people, some good and some not so good. While I know many people, the few true friends I have are a gift. As far a being taken advantage of...don't allow yourself to fall into traps. First time, shame on them, second time shame on you. Don't be naive and learn from your mistakes. Enjoy life for what it is, not what you think it should be.
2006-10-27 16:28:12 · answer #3 · answered by seattlego 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This definatly isnt the plce to look for friends. But dont be so depressive. People are c**p and hurtful. BUt decide which ones are worth taking the C**p. who is going to put up with your probs whilst you put up with theirs?
Find a hobby or a class or even join a befriending scheme, once you are happy with you then the decent people will want to be your friend. Whilst you sound so depressive and making out life is worthless then you are an easy target to get hurt.
Be strong and confident of who you are.
2006-10-27 16:23:02 · answer #4 · answered by mrsflax81 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes the world can be cruel, Ive also been screwed, backstabbed and stepped all over but I have also found that not all people are like that. There are others who actualy care. And you'll find those characters in the most unlikely places. Well I'm not sure if I helped or not but I hope you find what your looking for.
2006-10-27 16:23:04 · answer #5 · answered by caiforniapoppy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, seems like you can't throw a rock without hitting an a**hole! But there are a few good people left in this world. It's just hard as hell to find them. If you don't enjoy your own company, you won't be able to enjoy the company of others. Being alone isn't always as bad as people make it out to be. Make the most of your "me" time.
2006-10-27 16:22:29 · answer #6 · answered by baybeegrl5 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well it's not,it just has some bad people in it.The best way to get through this is to raise your standards and go to new places and forget the old ones.E-mail me sometime,and hope things get better for you.I'm always looking for friends.
2006-10-27 16:23:22 · answer #7 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi I would love to be your friend there are a lot of people that will use you that's when you have to stop letting that happen. see with me I made be in that same boat when people just use me because I am a very nice person. but out there you have to find who you can trust and everyone that says they are your friends are not your friend they just want to see what they can get from you
2006-10-27 16:24:56 · answer #8 · answered by runawayocean 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
listen my frind i had a horrible life also so u need to juss take it and get bakc up witch is the hardest thing to do im not an asshole but i done ashole things i lost friend after friend after fmaily meember after family meember theres always sumone worse off then u but god nv steered u wrong he aint gunna start now gd luck live long and prosper
2006-10-27 16:20:40 · answer #9 · answered by ermaarthur@sbcglobal.net 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sweetheart d world isnt completely full of a**holes,i'm sure there r pple who love/like u but u just havent noticed yet. u dont need d pple who f**kd u over im sure u see dat now. just keep being d great person dat u are and wen u least expect it u'll meet someone dat wud blow ur mind away..i bet u wont believe pple like dat still exist but trust me they do.
its a friday go have fun love!
2006-10-27 16:23:37 · answer #10 · answered by chicbunnie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋