I have a 2 best friends. One I just see in the morning and I walk to school and home with her everyday. And the other I'm with her all the time in school. But the problem is they dont like each other. I try hard to make them like each other but they cant get along. I feel like im in the middle and I cant take it. What should I do, cause I do not want it start into an argument or fight and im gonna have to choose cause I love them both. What Should I do?? Please Help??
2006-10-27 09:17:34 · 11 answers · asked by tRaCi3 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hey **** happens . i had the same problem once ... and I'm still friendz with them. they still don't like eachother. you cant force them into liking eachother .
2006-10-27 09:21:27 · answer #1 · answered by Milos K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your always going to be stuck in the middle,because they are
your best friend, therefore you don't want to choose. You need
to talk to both of them and tell them that they don't have to like each other but they do have to respect you for being friends
with thy other person. You should already know what will happen
if you were to choose, Right? What happens if you were to get in the middle and then it going to be she said you said type of deal
and I don't think you want that. Because at the end they will be
mad at you. So just let them know you'll be friends with both.
and you just want to say out of their little arguments. And for them
not to discuss one an others faults, cause you don't want to be in the middle of everything. Tell them can't we all just get along.
2006-10-27 16:29:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah so Im in this Problem too. But What i learned is that If they wont get along don't makke them. What I do is I hang out with both of them and they actullay laugh together and we talk once i even heard them negotiating(sp?) So it is workin
What I'm trying to say is that invite them both over one day and talk it out if they slaack off sparay them with water - thats what I did
2006-10-27 16:28:15 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley Emma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. If they are your friend then that is all that matters. You cannot make people get along but if you invite them out or what not make sure that they understand that you invited both of them. And if they complain tell them to grow up and get over it.
2006-10-27 16:21:23 · answer #4 · answered by Chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is really a complicated situation but I think you should continue to be friends with the both of them but make it clear to them that you are not apart of their differences with each other
2006-10-27 16:21:10 · answer #5 · answered by Lady B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 of my bestfriends get in fights alot and they get on eachothers nerves. What i would do is they dont like eachtoher and you cant change that but just hang out witht them both but not together. like 1 day hand out with one friend and the next hang out with another firend. Or just hang out with different friends.
2006-10-27 16:50:58 · answer #6 · answered by :)Tasha:) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eww...been there, done that one! I feel for you, really!
The only thing I would suggest is forget about trying to get them together for one big Love Fest...most likely, it's not going to happen. I know it's killing you because you love them both, but since you do love them, you'll have to keep it seperate if you want to continue being friends with them. Who knows, maybe one day.......
2006-10-27 16:21:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep doing what you are doing. They have the problem, not you, and do not let it worry your pretty little head. You do not have to choose, just go with what ever one, you want to when you want to. They have to be the one to deal with it!
2006-10-27 16:23:26 · answer #8 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well butt out of thier business, if they dont want to be friends that is thier problem.
2006-10-27 16:21:12 · answer #9 · answered by Allinwiththenuts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont o nuthing last time i tried that twice they god better friends then they were wit me so they ganged up on me juss let them bicker
2006-10-27 16:21:31 · answer #10 · answered by ermaarthur@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋