My friend likes this guy and is trying to go out with him. However my other friend and I know he is just playing her. What should we do? Should we tell her or let her find out by herself?
2006-10-27 09:13:09 · 12 answers · asked by clueless 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you shoudl let her know..tell her that you gusy are her friends and you don't want her to get hurt...tell her you think hes playing her...hey what she decides to do is wht she decides ot do..your job was to warn her and let her know what you guys know...if she gets screwed in the end....hey, again, at least you guys did your part by warning her
2006-10-29 05:41:26 · answer #1 · answered by lil_flirt_57<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her, BUT, she will still want to find it out for herself. I mean, think about it.....if YOU liked a guy and someone tried to tell you what a player he was, you would think, "But, I will just have to find out for myself, because I like him soooooooo much!" So, tell her, and then let her do what she wants, and stand by her choice. She will need you to be there when and IF she gets her heart broke.
2006-10-27 09:16:27 · answer #2 · answered by lcamel2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is your friend its better that you tell her now before she becomes attatched and really gets hurt. Let her know that you were only trying to look out for her, like a good friend should.
2006-10-27 09:23:19 · answer #3 · answered by Fran Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your friend's attitude and the situation. If you are really her friend than you should tell her the true. However, if you friend don't believe you than you should make her see him for what he truly is or let her find out on her own. I would tell her and let her catch him doing wrong.
2006-10-27 09:17:19 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♥Bree♥♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should tell her- because if she finds out that you 2 knew what was going on she will be mad at you guyz 4 ever and your friend might blame it all on you saying that it was your idea not too tell her
2006-10-27 09:38:39 · answer #5 · answered by blahblurb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate to say it, but ur friend needs to find out on her own, so she knows what inconsiderate pigs guys can be sometimes. good luck to her and i hope that if u do decide to tell her, you're sure its the absolute right thing to do. good luck=]
2006-10-27 09:16:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is tricky ... if you tell her than she'll end up hating you because she'll think your jealous ... but if you don't and she finds out you knew she'd hate that you didn't warn her ... i'd say try and tell her or show her how he is with others (take her to places where he'd be with other girls)
2006-10-27 09:15:29 · answer #7 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her. I got did like that and my friends knew but they didn't tell me! Don't let her go through that and get hurt. pleazzz don't do that. Tell her.
2006-10-27 09:35:30 · answer #8 · answered by shorti241 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wouldn't you want to know if the situation was reversed?
I would tell her.
2006-10-27 09:19:03 · answer #9 · answered by mktobyjo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you were a true friend you wouldn't need to be asking this question!!! TELL HER!!
2006-10-27 09:16:23 · answer #10 · answered by Sabrina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋