We have been friends for 6 years and he has been rock-solid steady for me, and I him. Now, he doesn't want to talk to me. I call him once a week to check on him, and he never calls me back. He sent me a letter yestreday sayin that I was practically stalking him and trying to push my way back into his life. I never knew I was out of his life. I don't know what to do. I want him to be happy, even if that doesn't involve me, but I want him to know whatever's going on... I am here. I also want to know if I can make it through life without him, I really don't think I can, but I still want him to be happy.
2006-10-27 08:48:36 · 7 answers · asked by scoutredneckfluffy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Write back and tell him just what you put in your question. Let him know you don't understand the problem. Does he have a new love interest? That may be part of it. Just ask him.
Good luck
2006-10-27 08:51:44 · answer #1 · answered by Bev 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your description sounds a tad 'more' than best friends . . . esp those comments about being able to make it through life without him ? WAYYYY more than friend, maybe that's what caused him to back off, like it was getting heavy and stalker like and he was really just feeling 'a friend'.
If you guys haven't clicked beyond friend by now, it is unlikely you ever will, so you really need to refocus on life elsewhere. Maybe after you chill out a while, the actual friend thing might resume.
2006-10-27 15:54:45 · answer #2 · answered by kate 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop talking to him for a while. Send him a letter in a month asking him to call you and talk about it. If he doesn't call you, then maybe you just have to let it go. Some people make strange decisions in their lives and you can't change that.
2006-10-27 15:51:21 · answer #3 · answered by Blunt Honesty 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave him alone. it sounds as though he has got a girlfriend now and he doesnt want to tell you as it might hurt your feelings so he is doing this to push you away rather than hurt you. if i was you i would leave him alone and see if he comes back to you i know its harsh to think of life without him but he needs his space and you know what they say. let go of the ones you love and you never know he might coming running back to you..........good luck
2006-10-27 15:52:45 · answer #4 · answered by kjw 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well usually that's how guys act when they are going through some issues, leave him alone when he's ready he'll let you know. Good luck
2006-10-27 15:52:23 · answer #5 · answered by lildemon78 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he won't communicate with you there is not much you can do. He obviously feels threatened for one reason or another. Give him time.
2006-10-27 15:52:57 · answer #6 · answered by grudgrime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has most likely developed feelings for you and thinks you will reject him (if you haven't already). Try talking to him about it and bring up the subject.
2006-10-27 15:50:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋