Okay we all know that humans are not perfect and we make mistakes (some worst than others). But what would be the perfect relationship for you even though they are not perfect and neither are you?
2006-10-27 08:34:01 · 27 answers · asked by Batman has left the building 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes this could be friendships or relationships with family, but I am mostly talking about a mate/spouse/lover.
2006-10-27 08:34:58 · update #1
I am blown away at some of these answers and will ponder further before picking one.
2006-10-30 03:54:52 · update #2
hey mate cant define perfect just like that...perfect for me would be honest,open,ever changing as people do change all the time,and allowing and accepting those changes...to be flexible and allow the other people in your life to see you as an individual as well as a part of that relationship and also seeing and appreciating them as individuals too...spend time together when you want to...give each other space when you need it...help each other achieve the things that matter and help and support when things are rough...thats all and not to have any expectations of each other either...you can apply this to any relationship and i do...;0)
2006-10-28 08:49:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say-------------- Couples will admit that it takes conscious effort to nurture a healthy relationship. During those first exciting stages of dating, everyone is on their best behaviors. It can be hard to find fault with one another. Everything feels perfect. Those minor character flaws may be perceived as endearing or quirky in the beginning. Six months later, they can be seen as perpetually annoying habits or unbearable irritants. Either way, nothing's perfect and that's what makes it "perfect"... (I know...it's a paradox. But life itself is one big paradox - if you haven't already noticed). My point is this: In order to realize 'perfection,' you must first experience imperfection. It's the same with saying you cannot know 'happy' if you've never known 'sadness.' One side of the equation cannot exist without the other. That's the paradox of life! So don't get too caught up trying to define a "perfect relationship" or compare your relationship with others to get some sort of validation. No two couples are the same. What works best in your relationship may not necessarily work well for another couple. So remember: Perfect is nothing but a word to describe what appeals to you most. We say it's perfect when things go our way. We say it's perfect when two people come together happily. So you see, it's just a word associated with being content. Simply put: If you're in a relationship that puts you in a good state of mind, then, you are in a 'perfect' relationship. And if you're still looking for that 'perfect' person, keep in mind they don't need to be perfect in all that they do, just as long as they're a perfect fit for you.
2016-05-22 01:19:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so right no ne is perfect..we all make mistakes and some even pay dearly for them over and over again..........
Is there truly a perfect relationship? There is no perfect relationship for me, if there is an attraction and I feel it is worth the effort and we have somethings in common I go for it. I never over judge a person, if the wrong was before my time well I believe it needs to stay there, no sense in rehashing the past and making it my present. Now I tell you what though hurt me while we are together and I rethink my ways if you are lucky you get one more try then it's out the door.
~Good luck with all your answers~
2006-10-30 13:56:51 · answer #3 · answered by vtlovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That you realize that we are not perfect and shouldn't expect others to be perfect is wonderful. Yeah we all have our own ideas of what we want in a relationship and a partner.
My last time around I came the closest to what i have ever wanted. He was responsible, honest, attentive, loving. He had a good career, a nice home and reliable automobile. He was taller than me. Bigger making me feel small and secure which I loved.
We had the most intense and intimate relationship that I could ever imagined. Because I came so close it gave me faith that it can happen in the future.
2006-10-29 03:17:54 · answer #4 · answered by Balou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perfect for me would require someone who is always happy to see me even if he's having a rough day. If I can leave my bad work day at the door, why can't he? I know that my bf didn't cause me to have a bad day so why be rude & disrepectful when I get home? Home is supposed to be your sanctuary, not your war zone.
Next would have to be open communication no matter how mad we are at each other & the willingness to comprimise about anything no matter how small.
Then great sex. I don't mean just wham, bam.
I mean real passionate, can't keep my hands off you, you'd say anything in the heat of the moment sex.
Nicole
2006-10-27 13:16:41 · answer #5 · answered by littlevada32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One with total communication and understanding. A relationship with no judgement, a calm and peaceful relationship where all issues can be worked in a positive way. Being there for each other at all times would also be perfect.
2006-10-27 08:47:08 · answer #6 · answered by bonbon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The relationship I'm in. My boyfriend is very sweet and caring. And our relationship is very open and honest we can talk about anything. We're very much in love and we never fight. Any problem we have we fix before it turns into a fight. . even if that means staying on the phone until 4:30 in the morning to talk (not yell) it all out. But we rarely have problems at all because we get along so well. I consider myself lucky each day to be in this relationship with this man who loves me so much and I love as well.
2006-10-27 08:39:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The perfect relationship for me would be to be treated nice like the guys I'm not into treat me but to feel about them the way I do the guys that dont treat me good. If I could master treating the guys I like the way I do the guys I dont like that might get me what I want. Easy to say, extremely hard to do.
2006-10-27 08:48:24 · answer #8 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In ANY relationship...family, friends or partners...I want honesty, trust, respect, and communication, first and foremost. In a partner relationship, once you have those, the intimacy will happen easily and often. In my relationship, I have none of the above and getting ready to get out of the marriage, at least through trial separation.
2006-10-27 17:32:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The perfect relationship....
Honesty, open communication, being able to be myself in any situation, no fear of being judged or rejected, someone who I honestly can't imagine life without.
The above actually explains my relationship with my parents, brother, niece, and a couple close friends.
It definitely is a special thing.
2006-10-31 05:37:00 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋