i have a real bad problems looking people in the eye. evenif im talking to a freind i known for ever i will only look at tthem for a second.
and if im having a deep conversation and im looking someone in the eye my head will start turning left slowly trying to turn away then i force it back but it keeps doing it.
ex.
i was talking to my friend margrette about her and i realstionship. some people have told me that she was tlaking about me i belive them cuased im stupid but we tlaked and we cleared it all up but as we were talking and i realized what i had done(turned on a friend when she needed me more than ever) my head started turning as she was tlaking. then i finally moved my head down then up and it stopped. but so did our conversation.
how can i stop this from happening and look people in the eye
2006-10-27 08:06:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2006-10-27 08:25:05 · answer #1 · answered by leeandaundrea1978 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You need to look people in the eye and whenever shaking someones hand make sure it's a firm handshake because that shows the person you are confident. If your talking to someone and not looking them in the eye they think your squirrely. I use to be very shy and wouldn't look someone in the eye when i spoke to them and people would walk all over me so one day a lady told me i needed to develop thicker skin and stand up for myself and show people i'm sure of myself so now i do and feel like i'm more respected now. Take baby steps...... you can do it.
2006-10-27 08:13:48 · answer #2 · answered by Darcee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I get to look the people in the eyes in any situation.
For that, when I begin to talk with somebody, first I concentrate on the one that the person is speaking. I listen sincerely, in the minima details everything that the person says. Then I fasten my glance in the one of her, without having fear of what he/she will be saying. I wait for the person to finish speaking everything and it is there that I begin to express my opinion or answer, fastening to look in his/her eyes. The person seems that is paralyzed.
Practice that with you same, be looked in a mirror, fasten your glance in yours and talk with you same. Like this, you will dominate that technique and you will never again have that problem.
(Excuse the spelling mistakes and of verbal agreement, I don't dominate the English language well)
2006-10-27 08:19:04 · answer #3 · answered by Rocha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try staring at the middle of their nose between the eyes. After a while, you will see you are not gonna spontaneous combust if you look someone in the eyes.
2006-10-27 08:10:28 · answer #4 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this is what i would do. try finding a job. like a cashier or something. it really helped me. cause i was scared to look at ppl in the eyes too when id talk to them. just when you get nervous just think ok im here to talk its ok.
well hope my advice was good to you!
have a wonderful day!
2006-10-27 08:09:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
get more confident. not looking people in the eye shows a lack of confidence. get more confident and you will be able to look people in the eye. a good way to get more confident in by going to a drama group.
2006-10-27 08:08:38 · answer #6 · answered by pinkgirly135 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are classes you can take that resolve this.
And to answer your question aside from that...you just look. It's your head and your eyes..don't be afraid.
2006-10-27 08:09:18 · answer #7 · answered by YourShopGirl.com 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let me guess:
Are you Indian ?
you cant change , that's your culture.
2006-10-27 08:18:16 · answer #8 · answered by na 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
just do it.
2006-10-27 08:09:39 · answer #9 · answered by no_wait_hes_spartacus 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋