I work with someone who always complains about her life, she always has nothing good to say, things are always screwed up for her for whatever reason. I just want to tell her that she causes her own misery, but how do I do this without hurting her feelings?
2006-10-27 06:39:20 · 12 answers · asked by Jackie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yeah, very negative person. Telling her she's a drama queen wont make her stop bitching. Just ignore it and maybe she'll stop. Or when she starts complaining, you can say something like "Ok, I have my own drama! I can't take anymore" but say it jokingly. Hopefully, she will get the hint.
2006-10-27 06:42:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd start by saying it in a joking manner. It's all about delivery. As most humor is based on truth, she is likely to take the comment better and analyze it more later.
2006-10-27 13:42:46 · answer #2 · answered by Chris 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
show her how she acts and see what she says. Be a drama queen and see if she reacts the way you do. She may not realize that she is always pessimistic, and if you show her how she acts, she will want to change. No one likes to be a paryt pooper.
2006-10-27 13:42:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her no that u 2 need 2 talk. then tell her that u noticed some poeple getting mad at her and saying that she is a drama queen. tell her that she needs to stop.
o and remember: let her down easy!!!
2006-10-27 13:51:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sticky Note.
2006-10-27 13:42:41 · answer #5 · answered by Witchy Woman 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Repeat after me " You are a drama Queen "
It is just that easy.
2006-10-27 13:46:22 · answer #6 · answered by Billy C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly you are gonna have to be upfront and just tell her.
I am known for being real honest about my feelings
2006-10-27 13:49:01 · answer #7 · answered by melanni 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont have a conversation with her and you wont know abiut her misery.
when she starts complaining if you do speak with her change the subject
2006-10-27 13:42:42 · answer #8 · answered by daisymayNY 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can't,but truth is better for her,you telling her the truth may help.truth always wins.
2006-10-27 13:42:25 · answer #9 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with her. maybe shes looking at you for some help. tell her how you feel,
2006-10-27 13:42:17 · answer #10 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋