i love him & i know he loves but he always is behind his sister on vounteer bases & i say him leave it to her husband but no he has do & so i was upset & in emotions i wrote a mail to lovers sister husband not revealing my name in the name of a boy wrote saying him to be a man revealed everything that what he has to do being a husband & father my lover doe to his sister which shud tell him or ring a bell in hIs heart to become a man & all my effort went waste it turned otherway my lover started doubting me that i have done all this yes it was me who had done but only with the intention that the husband will realise hsi duties & so my lovers responsibility will be less & hence my love can look towards me BUT IAM NOT ABLE TO TELL HIM SINCE I KNOW HIS ANGER iam scared that he will leave me off so i have not told him & he keeps scaring saying that he will go to cyber crime & if he comes ot know its me then he says everything is over.i dont want to lose him so i have not told him plshelp
2006-10-27 06:12:57 · 6 answers · asked by Jaanukidev 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no doubt ur husband needs some space for his family members too.....after all he is attached with them (including sister) before u were married to him.. the best thing is talk to him, open up... tell him,,,,u will give space to him but ask him to rememver that he has someone who is waiting with open arms..and is ready to love him always...if u think u need more discussions u can im me...
2006-10-27 18:38:38 · answer #1 · answered by mr_BIG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try another approach. Go ballistic and yell that yes you did that because you need some of his time and that while he realizes that he is a 'brother', he forgets that he is your 'bf/husband' too. He forgets that you need some of his time and now it's upto her sister's husband to look after her because she is married to 'him'. Cry and shout and be the one to walk out. Tell him that go and break it off already, anyway, he forgets your existenc. He foregets that you need love and care too and he is the one you are looking up to to get those small drops of love, he showers his sister with. Shout that he can go and report it to anyone he likes. He knows that he should be angry with you but he has no reason to consider how hurt you must be feeling to take such a drastic step. Just because he doesn't want to. Cry and sniff all you want and tell that you don't want him either and he can go live with his sister, if that is what he wants. You don't want him to hurt you on day to day, moment to moment basis and that you don't want to beg to him to give you more time anymore. Perhaps that will give you the opportunity to vent, help him eralize just how much he hurt you and if he really loves you, this should cure the situation. If it doesn't find a better person for yourself.
2006-10-29 18:12:06 · answer #2 · answered by Smriti 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi dear
Give him sum time & space 4 his personal life, once his sis matter is solved then he is all urs rite. wat u did was gud but a wrong way, by doing it u have put urself into trouble. Now u just back off & stay out of all this 4 a while, let him deal wid it by himself. Once everything is fine then u can confess to him i m sure he wont get angry on u if he really luvs u & if he doesnt understand u then just leave him & move on he is not worth u dear.
2006-10-30 05:01:57 · answer #3 · answered by simple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-28 06:28:59 · answer #4 · answered by melvina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he keeps hurting you, then get out of the relationship. Why should you stay with someone who does not care whether you get hurt or not.
2006-10-27 22:39:38 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jaanukidev, this is Mr. Period. Please make him your friend. He likes you so much, he wants to appear after every single one of your sentences.
2006-10-27 06:34:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋