Okay so i'm out of the closet but my girl isnt... she is an aspiring singer song writier and just isnt ready to come out the closet with the relationship... should I wait on her, or do you think she is just keeping at bay???
2006-10-27 05:55:09 · 6 answers · asked by Erika M 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You know her better than anyone here; you should know better than anyone here if she isn't telling you the truth.
If you feel like she's worth waiting for, I say go for it. She can't help not being ready, and when she is, she will need support... if any of this makes sence?
2006-10-27 06:00:07 · answer #1 · answered by erynnsilver 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u are gay and has an girlfriend, she is gay whether she come out of the closet or not. She might be bi if she haven't came out the closet. Something to think about if she had an man on the side
2006-10-27 06:00:25 · answer #2 · answered by dr. kil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a relationship throughout my teenage years and into adulthood with a girl who would NOT come out. Her parents knew but it was undiscussed, her friends and roomates had no idea. It was awful. Its really a terrible way to live your life, hiding from everyone you know, and I don't suggest that you be a party to it. If you think she'll grow up and be honest anytime soon, theres hope for the relationship. But if she isn't going to come out, period.....well, there just isn't any way for you to make that work.
2006-10-27 06:00:53 · answer #3 · answered by BoardingJD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a t-shirt that said that. Does she have to come out of the closet for you to love her differently? If you are in love with her,love her for who she is now,not what you hope she will become. Honor her feelings and honor yourself. Good Luck!
2006-10-27 05:59:47 · answer #4 · answered by auntgnu62 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes if you are gay and you too have a relation then she's also gay. The problem has to be the hiding. It may take some time as you know too. if you know she cares for you and loves you, you should give her that time.
2006-10-27 10:20:49 · answer #5 · answered by ddyk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It;s probally has to do with her family, if she does care about you she should care about what you want in life and not worry about what others think about her? She's not any differnt.
2006-10-27 05:59:49 · answer #6 · answered by Juleette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋