i like this girl soo much,every thursday i see her in the mall and sometimes we just talk like oh here u r again etc... but how can i know if she is a les or bi?coz sometimes i feel like she likes me but i really dont wanna go and ask her then she refuse me and say am not a lesbo
2006-10-27 05:50:09 · 9 answers · asked by Tara 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Try asking in another way, like asking...."How do you feel about gay marriage?" maybe from her answer you might be able to tell if she is or isn't .
Good Luck!
2006-10-27 05:56:37 · answer #1 · answered by Shi. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her you'd like to have lunch with her one day. Thats a reasonable enough offer from either a friend or a romantic interest. Over a meal, discuss your personal lives. You should be able to figure it out that way. If you're brave enough, just come right out and ask her. I know its hard, but getting to the heart of the matter is so much easier in the long run!
2006-10-27 12:52:33 · answer #2 · answered by BoardingJD 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The first answer that you got was very good!
Here is another way: wear a rainbow necklace, the universal symbol. When I wear a rainbow necklace (or something else rainbow...THE rainbow) and a girl complements me on it I know that she is really telling me that she is gay as well and usually interested, and that she would welcome me hitting on her. Of course there is always the possibility that she is straight and just likes rainbows....but most people know the symbol well enough now.
(also woks with a two female symbol, pink triangle, and sometimes the Lambda)
2006-10-27 12:56:58 · answer #3 · answered by Alexis 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The eternal question. There's no easy answer either. People are all too likely to delude themselves if they like somebody, but maybe she really is giving you cues. It's always hard to approach somebody but much harder when you're gay, and you have no idea what the reaction will be, since our society still encourages and validates hatred towards gay people. All I can say is, go with your gut - but it's hard!
2006-10-27 12:56:33 · answer #4 · answered by jonjon418 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show her a picture of a naked man with a hard on. If she throws up, she is probably a lesbo. Works every time. LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-27 13:38:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You observe every moment of that girl about which you are very much eagar to know.
See walking style of that girl.If she walks in more oscilltory motion then she will be BI-SEXUAL.[MOVING HER HIPS AUTOMATICALLY WHILE WALKING]. Her breasts are hanged up one, then she is BI-SEXUAL NOT LESBIAN.
If she is LSBIAN then Her breasts are not hanged up.Walking style is normal.It is very difficult to get wheather girl is lesbian or not.It is very easy to know if she is Bi-sexual.
2006-10-27 13:00:34 · answer #6 · answered by jayesh_1232007 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You HAVE to ask her; it's the ONLY way to find out!
2006-10-27 12:53:45 · answer #7 · answered by backinbowl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to ask her...why lead yourself on if shes not
2006-10-27 12:59:18 · answer #8 · answered by dan d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow some t*ts and ask her
2006-10-27 13:26:53 · answer #9 · answered by bopddbop 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋