im bi and i really like this girl but im married and i dont want her to think i want a threesome or something, witch i dont btw i just so confussed can some one help me pleaze?
2006-10-27 05:48:22 · 13 answers · asked by kendra aka pink 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I believe that as long as we remain sexual, other people are going to attract us whether we are married or not. Right now with so much focus on gay marriage, gay rights, and gay lifestyle, many people want to try both sexes. We have brought this issue to the surface, have given this issue validity, now people are curious. Three ways are abominable...someone always gets hurt. Lusting for someone does not mean you have to follow through. If your partner is amenable to you being alone with someone else sexually, then you must be amenable to your spouse doing the same. Weigh the jealousy issues of both of you and declare an open lifestyle or just daydream. It never hurts to look and it doesnt hurt to fantasize but relationships outside of the marriage can turn really ugly. Think carefully. Life is not what we see on TV or in the movies.
2006-10-27 07:32:56 · answer #1 · answered by juncogirl3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have an open relationship with your partner? If no, then why are you even asking the question...
If yes, then just go up to the girl and state your case. Good Luck!
2006-10-27 05:50:15 · answer #2 · answered by Scotsman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there aint much u can do there.If u want to get a divorce then you will need to find out if the other girl really likes you first.If you dont want to divorce then find out if your wife likes her first and gently tease it into a sorta threesome.
2006-10-27 05:53:31 · answer #3 · answered by gavin c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yes you need help - you need to be delivered and and change your sinful life - what I see here is that you're dominated by the flesh - if you get a divorce and go with the other girl you will get to the point where you will not be satisfied you'll be living a miserable life. change your mind!! seek Jesus
2006-10-27 05:56:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
What ever you and your husband agree to is fine. Being married is sharing life together, even the not so "normal" parts.
2006-10-27 05:51:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Threesome? Oh God what are you waiting for to take me off this corrupted earth?
2006-10-27 05:54:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Check your wedding vows. They don't specify gender. If you can't live with them, get a devorce.
2006-10-27 05:50:15 · answer #7 · answered by erynnsilver 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You'll have to get a divorce. You can't have your cake and eat it too.
2006-10-27 05:51:10 · answer #8 · answered by bostonchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to have your cake and eat it/her too. It's still cheating, no matter how you cut it!
2006-10-27 05:51:24 · answer #9 · answered by backinbowl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a shrink and seek help
2006-10-27 05:50:33 · answer #10 · answered by baby shih tzu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋