ok i have a question when my partner and i have sex it is easy to put in but for some reason sometimes its hard to get into my vagina.(we do it without protection) why does it change do you know? thanks in advance
2006-10-27 05:46:10 · 10 answers · asked by 805 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
You may be experiencing vaginal dryness. Or even worse, sometimes a yeast infection can keep you swollen, you know, from all that itching. Check the discharge, if its clear and thin, you are clear for take off. If its white and thick, you may have an infection. Make sure there's no odor.
2006-10-27 05:55:25 · answer #1 · answered by Lady K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming you mean it's painful for him to enter. Usually this is caused by inadequate lubrication and/or anxiety. Lots of foreplay (kissing, cuddling, "making-out") before sex will help the woman "get in the mood" and will allow easier entry. Anxiety will increase muscle tone in the vagina and can make it painful as well. Not feeling rushed, feeling comfortable with your partner, etc. will help.
Unprotected sex can add to your anxiety. Questions like, "Am I going to get pregnant?" and "What if he has a disease?" are definite turn-offs.
2006-10-27 05:51:32 · answer #2 · answered by infopsychrn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it's a question of lubrication.
Sometimes it'sa question of arousal.
Sufficient arousal typically results in adequate lubrication.
2006-10-27 05:53:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you doing it without protection? You're a strong, smart girl, look after your own health, don't let a guy tell you it's okay when you know it's not!!
2006-10-27 05:50:59 · answer #4 · answered by Little Red 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because sometimes you dont lubricate enough.
2 letter to fix the problem: KY
2006-10-27 05:49:04 · answer #5 · answered by frigon_p 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try some ky jelly sometimes there is not enough lubrication hope this helps
2006-10-27 05:49:19 · answer #6 · answered by tigerlilliebuick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it needs more lubrication. Maybe the times when it goes in fine its because there was more fore play than the times when its harder.
2006-10-27 05:49:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you really dont want to be doint it?your closing your muscle.Just tell him no.
2006-10-27 06:10:34 · answer #8 · answered by rosesrbl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont understand what your asking? can u ask in another way?
2006-10-27 05:49:25 · answer #9 · answered by debbs_za 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your not aroused or your are uncomfortable doing it. relax and forplay
2006-10-27 06:16:13 · answer #10 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋