okay so i have a michael myers costume that ive had for 2 years. last year i didnt get to use it cause i was working. but this year im off so i was looking forward to using it but my gf's brother wants to use it and my gf is giving me a hard time about it. i really want to use it and i think since i paid for it and since its mine i shouldnt have to lend it out to someone else if i want to use it. but my gf making it sound like i wont lend it out cause i dont trust him. i want to use it but i dont want her being mad at me about it. am i being selfish for wanting to use it?? or should i just lend it to her brother? FYI hes about 27 and has a job and could easily buy one himself.
2006-10-27 05:41:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
1] It is your costume
2] If you let her control you now she will do it forever
3] She should respect your decision.
2006-10-27 05:48:01 · answer #1 · answered by Bubbles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, i am deathly afraid of Michael Myers, and my boyfriend is a freak for him, so i would say get rid of it, but I think your girlfriend needs to realize that you want to use your costume. let her and him know that you trust him, but you have this opportunity to celebrate halloween, and wouldnt want to be anythign else. Let him and her know that you would lend it out if you had to work. Also make a suggestion that he goes to Halloween USA and looks for one, or looks for a different costume, or go shopping with him. If he or her know you support him in getting a costume, and that you trust him, it shouldnt be a huge problem. Suggest the stores that may have a costume similar for him to get so he has his own to use whenever he wants.
Ugh Michael MYERS! ahahaha
2006-10-27 12:45:51 · answer #2 · answered by overwhelmed85 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not being selfish. Explain to her that you want to use it..and that her brother is a dead beat and should buy his own costume
2006-10-27 12:44:08 · answer #3 · answered by Ash-a-wee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋