i wear a hoop in my nose and my husband doesn't like it. should i take it out for him or keep it in cuz i like it??
2006-10-27 05:36:34 · 25 answers · asked by â?¥sarah 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
i think you two should come to a compromise.
I also have a nose ring, but I don't wear a hoop. I wear a classy, very small stud. My bosses don't even care if I wear it to work. Maybe you could try it? That way you can still have your piercing, but it might satisfy your husband too; and only wear the hoop occasionally.
I got mine at Claire's. They are very cute.
But, in the end, I do say do what you want to. But I do hope the two of you can come to some kind of agreement! Good Luck!♥
2006-10-27 05:52:29 · answer #1 · answered by dyingatwork 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What about meeting in the middle. Maybe he just doesn't like the hoop. What if you get a tiny little stud. You would still have your way and he may like the femininity of the smaller stud. Maybe tell him he can pick it out. Just an idea. Funny, my husband doesn't want me to pierce my nose. I have thrown it out there for so long. I think a little diamond would be cute. Good luck. Sometimes if you act like you are giving them some input on an issue, it is much easier to find a common ground.
2006-10-27 05:45:15 · answer #2 · answered by kimmypoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is the problem with the fact your nose is pierced, or just he fact you are wearing a hoop? Maybe you can compromise. Take out your hoop in exchange for something different. A small gold ball, or diamond. Something else other than the hoop.
2006-10-27 05:40:22 · answer #3 · answered by Kat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way, if your husband is a reasonable person and he isn't comfortable with your nose ring, would you jeapordize the quaility of your relationship over it? You may like it, but is it worth causing problems over? If our husband suddenly decided to do something against your wishes (get a tatoo, smoke a cigar etc.) even though it may not seem a big deal to him, by insisting that he do it may make you feel insignificant.
Seems a little trivial to be bickering over.
2006-10-27 05:41:35 · answer #4 · answered by Denny M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like it just keep it in!!! But if you know it's going to cause a lot of problems I would just take it out. Just think, who would it upset more?? If you really liked it and took it out, then you would be upset and it wouldn't be fair to yourself. But your husband is just being honest and doesn't like it, because he might think your less attractive with the nose ring, and it upsets him because you don't care that it bothers him. It all depends on who's feelings your willing to hurt, or who's going to get more upset. You or him!
2006-10-27 05:45:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your going to wear a ring or hoop in your nose, make sure you know who is pulling it. Know what I mean?
2006-10-27 05:45:55 · answer #6 · answered by Dylanne 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes
2006-10-27 05:51:45 · answer #7 · answered by prizefyter 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is YOUR nose. If what he says bothers you, maybe compromise and put in a small diamond stud?
2006-10-27 05:42:57 · answer #8 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had it and wore it when you met try to find the reason for the change. If it's new and you plan to stay together you might should have discussed it.
2006-10-27 05:41:51 · answer #9 · answered by chuckwilmoth@sbcglobal.net 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep it in.
But remember that you can never then complain about anything he does; what is sauce for the goose has to be sauce for the gander :o)
2006-10-27 05:43:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋