She always trying to steal my man and she is getting on my d*** nerves!
2006-10-27 05:21:21 · 31 answers · asked by jasmine_williams_101_11 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just ignore her
2006-10-27 05:24:22 · answer #1 · answered by jack jack 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She is just not your friend period. I used to have "friends" like that, they would talk behind my back and act all like my boyfriends were after them in the first place, even when my b/f's would tell me that's not true.
You might want to consider making more friends with guys; at least you would have a lot less of a worry of them trying to steal your boyfriends. That's how I grew up; most of my friends are guys. They don't stab you in the back, don't act nice to your face and then say mean crap about you when you're gone. Consider it; they're really a lot more straightforward than most other girls are as friends, more honest about things and everything. Plus, they're more fun to be around anyway.
2006-10-27 12:24:58 · answer #2 · answered by jennnnn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can I say this without sounding like an over-protective parent? Wake up!!!.....when will you realize that friends don't try to do harm or hurt other friends. How can you consider someone who is disrespectful, and inconsiderate of your relationship and your feelings....a FRIEND?? She might have been a friend somewhere in the not-to-distant past, but she's not your real friend anymore. Time to say goodbye to that chapter in your life, and move on to the next new, exciting and adventurous experience of your young life!
Best of Luck!
2006-10-27 12:28:08 · answer #3 · answered by Ralph 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know a bunch of your responses are gonna be yes, and to get rid of her. I dissagree. I'm looking through her eyes. You obviously have a life and a personality that she admires. Or else she wouldn't want everything you have, including your boyfriends. She's looking up to you kind of like a mentor. She wants to be like you so much that she's willing to copy your moves. It's annoying, i'm sure, but I'd take it as a compliment. If you are to the point of not being able to handle it, then you should cut her loose, but do what makes you happy.
2006-10-27 12:32:37 · answer #4 · answered by St. Louis Rams Chick 1976 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well. dont jump the gun to thinking she is. maybe its just something about the guys you like that she likes to .. i mean yeah it is possible that she does do it just out of the spite & hatrid it will bring apon you but then again. you can't jump the gun to thinking that! many times in friendships. you end up liking/falling for the same guy as your friend but thats when you have to make the descision of whats more important in your life.. your friend.. or the boy.. but you must remember that most of the time boys come & go.. but friends will remain in yoour heart forever. confront your friend. & let her know that what shes doin is bother you. and maybe then if it doesn't change she is acting like one. i'm sorry that your having to go through this. me & my friends used to go through it. but then we all just realized that guys are dumb and there not worth fighting over. .
so theres a point where you have to decide whats more important.
its all in your hands;
is she a b!t*h or not..?
2006-10-27 12:34:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two options. Either talk to her and tell her to stop and how you feel about it or have a battle of wills with her. If you want the guy, you have to do everything in your power to win him. These kinds of things can get pretty ugly sometimes so maybe just talking to her is the way to go.
2006-10-27 12:24:41 · answer #6 · answered by DaRkViXeN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes she is trying to steal your man is really not a friend to begin with a friend is someone you can trust. Not someone thats being a b*i*t*c*h
2006-10-27 14:02:41 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Likely.
Have a little faith in 'your man' though too.
Relax. If she manages to 'steal' him, so be it. - Chuck 'em both.
Don't be such a drama queen.
2006-10-27 12:54:51 · answer #8 · answered by Oh, I see 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I would stop that now. Confront her! I had a couple friends pull that on me. One time I finally asked "when are you going to stop flirting with my boyfriend?" and I did it in front of everyone! She was mortified and she cried and everything. I felt bad that she cried, but she kept her hands to herself after that!
2006-10-27 12:24:04 · answer #9 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of her. She's a backstabber and will continue to cause problems in your relationship. She's not a real friend. Lose her fast!
2006-10-27 12:23:28 · answer #10 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it`s a question of survival. Women tend to compete against one another, it`s the law of nature baby.
2006-10-27 12:26:56 · answer #11 · answered by spatz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋