hi me & my friend (girl) stopped talking 4 the past 2 years. just misunderstandings but i really care 4 her as a tru friend i want 2 clear all misunderstandings & tell her that i care 4 her. but the problem is 1 of my friend said that if i talk to that girl again he will tell her that i stopped talking 2 my mother due 2 her & that i've been on fasting 4 her sake 4 the past 3 years wishing & praying 2 god that she should get a gud hubby & nice in-laws. i don't want that girl 2 know these things. i've been wasting time whether 2 tell her the actual things or not. what to do? i am not bothered whether she will understand my friendship or not but just i want to tell her that i care for her. any suggestions.
2006-10-27 05:20:28 · 12 answers · asked by Dvij 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It's been 2 years....let it go. It's over and there is no going back.
Besides, if you don't want her to know this stuff, and have something to hide....it's not ever going to be a good relationship anyway. Hiding does not equal love.
Get over her and move on.
2006-10-27 05:23:02 · answer #1 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dear frnd,
its nice to hear tht u care for her and there r very few ,people who turn to their frnds once they r broken wid there frndship
so whts the matter.now dont listen to the other frnd ,and the question is not about this frnd telling to her or not.the only thing tht shld matter u is her,only her.may b she want u the most at this time,may b shes fearing to talk to u again.b frank and talk to her.frndship means understanding ,faithand care which u hv for her.and if she has same she will b wid u no matter wht happens.
even she knows about the matters u did after ur broken frndship,she will b wid u ans dont care about other things.in short pls talk to her,start wid a sorry and dont b egoistic.dnt give her sudden response listen to her also,i pray u will get her again.god bless u frnd.:-)
2006-10-27 12:32:05 · answer #2 · answered by simi das 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send her a gift certificate that can only be used at a specific time and place< restaurant-hair salon> make sure its RSVP then show up and tell her everything/ its a shot.you can say on the gift from a anonymous admirer it will kick that < i gotta Know > in her
2006-10-27 12:31:20 · answer #3 · answered by happyboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm sounds a little crazy. Maybe it's best you stay away from her...sounds like you've become obsessive. You seem to be focusing on her to much and it's not very healthy sounding.
2006-10-27 12:26:02 · answer #4 · answered by jasonstroble 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Any girl will love you for your care for her do not worry just say her do not mind about your friend.
2006-10-27 12:23:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what to tell you, follow your heart. What I don't understand is why kind of friend do you have that would tell her this?
2006-10-27 12:22:43 · answer #6 · answered by luedvic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a chat with her by inviting her for a meal.
2006-10-27 12:24:05 · answer #7 · answered by Krishna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why bother! it's being 2 yrs...move on
2006-10-27 12:24:03 · answer #8 · answered by guess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her.
2006-10-27 12:54:00 · answer #9 · answered by Meeto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop caring.
2006-10-27 12:21:43 · answer #10 · answered by Amaranth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋