I admire this guy about 6months now how. How can i tell him i love, christmas is coming very soon, i was thinking that i want to give present for christmas? I wanted to write a letter and tell him. But i'm worrid he doesn't like me. if he doesn't like me, my heart will be broken. I dreamt last night about him and he told me that he love me and i kiss him on his cheeks. I hope this dream will come true.
What will you do if you were me??
2006-10-27 04:51:47 · 11 answers · asked by xDi0rAngelx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
baby girl, are you able to see him? if so, you want him to notice you first. by saying "hi, how's going" it's a prelude to a conversation. once you have that going, then you'll be able to know him better. ask him of his interests, find anything that you guys have in common, then work from there. there might be a chance that you would be able to go out with him, if there something that both of you could enjoy. these steps will get you to go out on a date with him. give him a cristmas card and no more than that. you don't want to give him that much clue of how you feel about him.
2006-10-27 04:57:21 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically I think it is always better to give him some hint and observe his reaction. This is one of the way you can know if the guy really like you. The next thing i will do is to invite him to a christmas party which I believe that most people will go and hopefully he had know how you feel about him
2006-10-28 08:23:30 · answer #2 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just make friends with the man and find out if he likes you or not. Only flowers are made to be loved and admired from afar (because of the thorns), people need love to be up close and personal. If you don't talk to him how can you know it's love?
2006-10-27 12:01:34 · answer #3 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him. Tell him that you have strong feelings for him and find out where he is. You can't make a guy fall in love with you, he either does or he doesn't it's best to find out as soon as possible so that you can be kissing him if he feels the same way, or moving on if he doesn't. Be strong, I know it's scary but it's better to know! Trust me.
2006-10-27 12:08:56 · answer #4 · answered by hideemosquito 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Best thing you can do is tell him how you feel. If he doesn't fell the same way at least you'll have gotten an answer to your question. I know rejection can be hard but if you don't put your heart out there a little how can you find love?
2006-10-27 11:55:24 · answer #5 · answered by St.Anger 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well..if i was you..i would just write him a letter like you said...i've been there before..and trust me...when you write stuff down on paper..you get your feelings out better...just write him and tell him how you feel about him...guys like when a girl does that.
2006-10-27 11:59:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on your age, ask him if he'd like to get a drink/coffe/soda sometime. That simple question can open up a lot of doors. Don't profess undying love, just, get a cup of coffee.
2006-10-27 12:58:39 · answer #7 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK dear Abby honey,she gets paid to help poor love struck kids like you,you got to get some courage and flit with the guy.Then you will know if he cares for you or not.In other words get some balls honey!lol
2006-10-27 11:56:49 · answer #8 · answered by foolish_pleasure5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would write him a letter asking him and telling him that youve noticed him over the over the past few months and that you would like to get to know him better
2006-10-27 11:54:15 · answer #9 · answered by superchik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you, i would buy him the xmas gift but minus the i love you. maybe start small and ask him out first???????
2006-10-27 11:54:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋