I live with my Aunt. She agreed to let us date. A month ago she wanted us to stop seeing each other so much. But we didnt stop. Now I dont know what to do. He wants us to marry and I do to. With the my mom not having the right to aprove. We dont know what to do,
2006-10-27 04:31:02 · 15 answers · asked by D.Shelton 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
just do it.... you have your own family now and you need to be responsible for your actions.Having a baby is not a reason to stop your education so be an example for others and finish your education so you can make your own $....Your Aunt thinks she can tell you what to do because she is supporting you.
2006-10-27 04:33:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sweetheart, your Aunt and boyfriend should be shot.
Your Aunt should be charged with endangering the welfare of a minor. She had no right allowing you to date a 27 year old man.
He had no business having sex with you, let alone unprotected sex. He needs to go directly to jail. You are a child not an adult.
As for the 17 year old who thinks it is no one elses business but yours, she is a child who has no idea about what she is speaking. A child is the responsibilty of their guardian or parent until they are an adult. They are financially responsible until the child is 21 and/or not living in the household.
2006-10-27 12:02:39 · answer #2 · answered by hsp_goddess 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you know you are too young to date a 27 year old. your aunt needs some serious help. what happens if you get knocked up again, and he leaves you and you have ruined your life. he's not guareented to be around for good so dont bank on that. he knows he's too old for you, he could possibly go to jail too. you should take the time and grow up instead of rushing into adulthood.
2006-10-27 11:39:44 · answer #3 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Unless your Aunt has legal custody of you, you are in the custody of the state.
If this is the case, have your boyfriend report to the nearest courthouse and tell them your story. If he behaves himself, he may get out of prison in time to see his child graduate highschool.
What he did was called statuatory rape, and due to the age difference they will throw the book at him. If you are in the custody of the state they will hunt him down without mercy, lock him up with some dude with a gold tooth dude nick-named "Bubba the Penetrator" and the next time you see him he will be someone's sweety.
If your aunt does have custody, talk to her, explain the situation, and get married asap (like this weekend).... of course she may instead want the boyfriend to go see Bubba.... just out of principal.
2006-10-27 15:28:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone should sue your Aunt for letting a 27yr old rape you!!! Don't say it isn't rape. At your age your brain isn't developed enough for you to make a wise dicision about it! Thats why you still needed a guardian! Your Aunt failed you. Don't ruin your life further by getting married at such a young age! This guy should be in JAIL!! HE KNOWS BETTER!!!
2006-10-27 11:36:51 · answer #5 · answered by wish I were 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He should actually go to jail. Sleeping with you is a crime. You are not legally allowed to marry him either. Something is seriously wrong with an aunt that would allow you to date a man that age.
2006-10-27 11:36:13 · answer #6 · answered by KathyS 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
If this guy is 27 and you're 16, sounds like statutory rape . You'll never have a good life with this one.
2006-10-27 11:36:37 · answer #7 · answered by honey 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
oh harss life now i think that maybe take the child to a orphan house or something you need to foucus on school and get a education now if you already do then you are fine
2006-10-27 11:33:03 · answer #8 · answered by TexasGirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just wait for 2 more years. Thats the only thing you can do.
2006-10-27 11:34:16 · answer #9 · answered by tamana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're a minor. someone has to approve your marriage and sign off on it. usually it's a parent. if you're parents legally don't have custody over you, then you're legal guardian (your aunt, perhaps) would have to sign. so either win them over or wait 2 years. it won't kill you to wait. if anything, it'll make y'all's relationship stronger.
2006-10-27 11:34:11 · answer #10 · answered by dixiegirl687 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋