what should i do ?

Question

hi im 15 and im dating a boy and now in 2 months and i dont no wat to do. my stomach is already starting to show but how do i tell my mom.my b-friend said he would help and he has had my back so far. what should i do . im scared

Answer 1

Well there is no beating around the bush on this subject seeing as though you are going to tell on yourself if you do not come out with it soon.
It is best to be straight foward with your mom. If you are pregnant you will need care by a doctor. You need prenatel vitamins, etc. You must have parent consent before being treated by a doctor.
Stop thinking of yourself and how your parents are going to react when you have a baby inside you that needs care!!

Answer 2

Isn't 15 illegal to have sexual intercourse ? Your boyfriend could get into serious trouble. You are far too young to have a baby and have to cope with all the responsibities that brings, so many girls your age think it will be fun, however they soon realise otherwise and their mother ends up looking after the child, and to be fair why should she ? I would give this serious consideration, I can't tell you what to do but I would advise having an abortion. You need to live your own life a little, have fun, do silly things, travel and go on adventures before being landed with a child.
Do you really want to be woken 2 or 3 times a night, have to change dirty nappies, clean vomit, cope with tantrums etc at your age, you would soon get bored with it and I would think the boyfriend would soon be walking down the road ! Please, please tell your mom immediately and think very, very seriously about this in a very mature way. Best wishes.

Answer 3

First of all don't panic. You really needs to think everything over. Most parents will stand by their daughter when they are in trouble.Tell them and hopefully they will come to your aid. You need to finish school if at all possible. You say the guy has got your back . Good but he is awful young and may feel the need to run when it all comes about. A baby is a lot of responsibility even for older couples. Family will be there for you. It's not so bad making a mistake in life--It's when you don't learn from them that you get lost ! Be brave, hang in there and all the luck to you.

Answer 4

The best thing for you is going to be direct and honest with your mom. She will probably be upset, but the longer it takes you to tell her the more upset she's likely to be. I was 16 when I had my first daughter and I don't think that without my mom I'd have survived. Start with "Mom I have something important to tell you, I know that you may be upset, but thought it should come from me and not someone else, (boyfriends name) and I have been having sex, and now were pregnant. " Make sure she knows you plan on holding your share of the responsibility. If you want someone to chat with through out this feel free to IM me

Answer 5

your mom will understand, she may be dissapointed but she will help you out. If you are not sure, tell another female relative first and talk to your mother together, you may need someone to back you up. Also, you're young, so you should start getting prenantal care immediately if you plan on keeping this baby. Make sure the father signs the bith certificate, although he says he'll be around, many teenage boys get scared and deny their paternity, and this is important.

Answer 6

Hey girl I had my first when I was 17 and still in school. what you need to do is sit down and make a plan before you tell your mom. So when she askes you these questions you can answer.
How will you support the baby?
where will you live?
what about school?
Your mom loves you and wants the best for you. her anger may be out of fear for what your life will become. But trust me with clear goals you can do it. Have Faith

Answer 7

You should just take a deep breath and tell her. Tell her that you did not mean for this to happen, that you are sorry to disapoint her. But you are pregnant and you need her to be here for you now. The more stress you have during your pregnancy the worst it will be for your baby. You have to tell her, pull off the bandaid and just let it out. you will feel so much better after you do. Good luck.

Answer 8

Tell her upfront that you are pregnant. It could only get harder for you to tell her the longer you wait. She may get mad but will sooner or later get over it. At least the baby's father is sticking around. The sooner you get it off your chest the better you'll feel knowing that you have told her early on in the pregnancy, regardless of how she feels about you being pregnant.

Answer 9

Talk to a counselor at school. They will help you make the right choice, That's what they are there for, If you are not in school, try social services. Or a priest or doctor. But tell someone that is qualified to help you. Best of luck to you.

Answer 10

whatever u do, dont make an irrational decision. dont try and get rid of the baby or anything because you would only be harming yourself if you did it in a bad way. just sit your mom down and tell her what happened, she may not know what to do at first but theres nothing you can do to change what has happened so you have to tell your mom in hopes that she will help. also make sure your boyfriend tells his parents so they may be able to help too.