A year and a half ago I made friends with a girl my age from the USA from a pen pal website, I kow quite a bit about her including personal stuff. We both want to meet but she cant come here cause she doesnt have the money she cant find a job and her family are a bit mixed up and I can offord to go over there cause shes having really big problems and ive kinda grown attached and weve become quite close and ive helped her through quite a lot of moments. I know what she looks like and almost everything about her and like wise but im getting increasingly worried about her and want to go to see her but part of me thinks its a bad idea. Do you guys agree?. Another thing you should know is she is who she says she is everything adds up to the miniute detail.
2006-10-27 04:27:48 · 16 answers · asked by cavatina_2005 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think its a good idea if you go..you can see her and also have a holiday..it would do her the world of good..but just dont give her money or send money to her..just give her a shoulder to cry on..Have a brilliant time.
2006-10-27 07:14:45 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go over but let people know where you are. Stay in a hotel near by so you have your own place to stay and are not dependant on her. Even if you don't get on whilst you are over there you can have a good holiday.
2006-10-27 04:31:28 · answer #2 · answered by Jo 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would wait until her situation is less strained and then if she still wants to meet up review the situation once again, however, if you have a gut feeling against something, don't do it as it is usually spot on!
2006-10-27 04:41:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would as long as u know that ur not going to be in harms way. dont put ur self in any danger but if u not then i would go . YES
2006-10-27 04:36:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah book a cheap motel then you can arrange to do things from your own base.
2006-10-27 04:33:56 · answer #5 · answered by MANC & PROUD 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are such good friends then what are you waiting for you might be what she needs to get her head on straight and move forward with her life so go ahead suprise her and help her out.
2006-10-27 04:31:52 · answer #6 · answered by vomissie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if its all above board then i think you should go,if she's in need of a helping hand then you being her friend you should help her out.
it sounds like you know her very well and you trust her so you should follow your heart.
2006-10-27 07:34:22 · answer #7 · answered by vicki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea you will always wonder, just have a back up plan incase she is not who she says! Good luck!
2006-10-27 04:51:23 · answer #8 · answered by lost 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be ok but meet her in a public place with a friend or your parents or whatever.
2006-10-27 04:45:59 · answer #9 · answered by iluvcascada 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wellll if you really trust that its her and your old enough to do so then go out there and see her. if you feel like she really needs you then a friend in need is a friend in deed
2006-10-27 04:31:03 · answer #10 · answered by fewchure/sex_ologist 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋