ok i slept with a girl about a month b4 she found out she was pregnant i know for a fact she slept with someone else on the exact date that the docter said she got pregnant but now that the baby is born it looks just like my other son did when he was a baby. Is it possible that it could be mine? I've heard that sperm can survive up to 14 days inside a girl is that true?
2006-10-27 04:24:59 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
It is possible for sperm to live up to 7 days in a woman. If you had sex with her during the cycle that she conceived, you could be the father because the date the doctor said said she conceived on is only an estimate. Even with early ultrasound (like 6 weeks pregnant) estimates can be off by days, and the later the ultrasound, the less accurate the estimate. If she was going by her last period to date the pregnancy, that can vary to, because cylces are not always the same length.
You can try and figure it out all you want but the only way to be sure is to order a DNA test, it's really easy but costs $99
http://www.paternityexperts.com/?OVRAW=cheap%20paternity%20test&OVKEY=cheap%20paternity%20test&OVMTC=standard
This little boy deserves a father though, so it's worth it to find a way to do the test. Good for you that you are trying to figure it out and not just walking away.
2006-10-27 05:00:51 · answer #1 · answered by e_gladman@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not true that sperm can survive 14 days. More like three to five.
But the ONLY way to determine if you are the father, and I repeat the only way, in this situation is to have a paternity (DNA) test done. I suggest you do this so you will all know for sure.
And if its yours, you need to help support this baby. By the way, you might also want to get tested for all sexually transmitted disease. Promiscuity (sleeping around with a lot of women who also sleep around a lot) coupled with unprotected sex (no condom) is a great way to get an STD or AIDS/HIV.
2006-10-27 04:55:17 · answer #2 · answered by EmLa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe it is true about the sperm survival rate; however, yes, it is very possible the baby is yours. You should ask for a paternity test to be completed for sure. If she will not agree to a paternity test, you should see a lawyer to have one completed.
2006-10-27 05:03:23 · answer #3 · answered by robbin m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be the father....we already know that you are able to father children. Dates of conception are just a guess.
My suggest is that you learn how to have safe sex and not just do it with anyone.
Yes sperm can live for a while in the human body
2006-10-27 04:28:59 · answer #4 · answered by yzerswoman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a paternity test. Doctor's cannot know the exact day of conception...they give an educated guess at best (with a wide timeframe around it). If you think it might be yours get a test. Good luck.
2006-10-27 04:26:58 · answer #5 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Finnley Cullen is a keeper, but I don't know about calling a little boy Maddy, he'd be made fun of at school, Madden is fine as long as you call him that. Also, I must suggest Madden Tyler and Graycen Harlow because Tyler is a boy name and Harlow is a girl name. Finn, Madden & Gracie, very nice<3.
2016-05-22 00:45:22 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations
2006-10-27 04:34:37 · answer #7 · answered by Keanu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is very possible. Get a paternity test done.
You wouldn't happen to live in Las cruces NM do you? Sounds just like the situation my sister is in.
2006-10-27 04:27:24 · answer #8 · answered by gin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup its true, and its definitely a possibilty that you are the father, but if you are still uneasy about the situation, go for a paternity test.
2006-10-27 04:27:06 · answer #9 · answered by Rabbit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Considering you did have SEX then yes of course it's possible. Take the test just to make sure.
2006-10-27 04:27:14 · answer #10 · answered by kingmustang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋