2006-10-27 04:08:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Everyone regrets their abortion. It is a sin. It is like a cancer that eats away at the soul. If one kills their own child, a part of themselves, they will regret it. It is a quick fix, it is the sevils solution to a bad choice. God will forgive...but you need to go to him and ask forgiveness. He will show you how to heal and be forgiven.
2006-10-27 04:10:42 · answer #1 · answered by Shayna 6 · 5⤊ 2⤋
Yes, I feel bad about it, I was too young,15 years old and my bf was 16 and a jerk. My parents found out (someone else told them) I was 9 weeks pg. They asked me what did i want to do, how did I feel about it...I said I didn't want the baby, I was the best in my class, I had major plans for going to college, it just seemed like it would ruin my life. So I got an abortion,my parents went with me...they were really upset with me for a long time. They also made sure I went to a psycologist after it so I could handle such a big event being so young. Time went by,my parents supported me and we never talked about it anymore. Now that I'm pg and see how wonderful it is to carry a baby I regret it, feel bad about it...but it was 10 years ago and I can't go back in time, so I just have to face it and live with it. I did everything I wanted with my life, graduated with honors from high school and college, got a good job, got married...I feel sometimes guilty that I put my career and what everybody expected of me before a human life.
2006-10-27 04:17:52 · answer #2 · answered by Baby Ruth habla español 6 · 9⤊ 0⤋
I had an "induction" at 16 weeks, I consider that to be an abortion because it took the life of my baby. I can't help but wonder if I'd made another decision if he would be here today. I regret that decision everyday, even though I was deathly ill and the doctors say if I had been pregnant another day I would have died, I still can't help but wonder what he would be like or what would have happened if I had only chosen to attempt to give him a chance. So yes, I think at some point everyone regrets that decision.
2006-10-27 04:13:29 · answer #3 · answered by justwondering 5 · 5⤊ 1⤋
regret is difficult it means you didn't learn from your experience. I had an abortion I mourn for the loss of that child because he/she was a child in my thoughts. I was almost 4 months pregnant and at the time the law hadn't changed about when you could no longer have an abortion.
So, mourn the loss. Learn from the experience but never regret. Regret will leave you heavy-hearted and unable to enjoy when a new life a newborn life will come into your heart and you will be able to replace mourning with joy.
God Bless
2006-10-27 04:17:57 · answer #4 · answered by jbseminoles 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I am sure that at one point a women will regret having the abortion. The thought of "What i...?" will run through mind from time to time. I think it is a normal reaction. But than the realization sets back in.
2006-10-27 04:13:00 · answer #5 · answered by bebegurl 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
some people do and others don't but if i had to do that i would then wouldn't regret it because i would have to but if i didn't then i just aborted the baby then i probly regret it because if nothing was wrong with the baby and i wouldn't beable to keep it then i would have regret that because u have to carry yourself well to have a baby have money and everything but if this is a choice u have to make in your life now and u HAVE to do it then fine but if u don't and u want to your just making it hard on your self
2006-10-27 04:18:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I believe that everyone who has had an abortion regrets it at one time or another. you must not dwell on this or it will make you loose your mind. If you are a spiritual person ask god to forgive you and to help you live with your decision. GOD BLESS YOU
2006-10-27 04:12:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
I know 2 people who had it done.Both said that they truly believed at the time it was for the best and now it really bothers them and it was the worst decision that they had ever made.There's always adoption.It may not be wonderful to give your child away but it's better than killing it,that's for sure.They realized that when it it was too late.
2006-10-27 04:25:54 · answer #8 · answered by michelle 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
about 2 1/2 years ago, i was strung out on the worst drug on the planet...meth. while on meth i found out i was pregnant, and almost 5 months along...couldnt even tell because the drug drained my body of any size. but anyways i had an abortion. at first i regretted it, but now that im clean and sober, i realize that i did the right thing. even if i did give birth, theres no way that the baby wouldve been happy in life, knowing his background.
2006-10-27 04:12:20 · answer #9 · answered by oliveirasgirl2000 3 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Mine was the best decision for me at the time and I still don't regret it.
2006-10-27 04:20:11 · answer #10 · answered by BlairBear 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋