Let me first start off and say that I have two best friends. They both mean the same to me (I don't like one more than the other). Although I have known Sam longer than Jessi, I still treat them both the same.
We all have our little group. I was friends with Jessi before Sam was friends with her. I have been Sam's friend for five years though. Jessi and I have been friends for two.
Lately, Sam has been ignoring (not intentionally) Jessi. He doesn't realize it and she feels really bad. For example. I will be talking to Jessi and Sam will come up to me and talk to me, and totally move Jessi out of the way. I don't have any cool advice to give her so I was woundering if you did. What should I do?
2006-10-27 04:04:55 · 2 answers · asked by leigh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
When you are alone with Sam, ask him if there is something about Jessi that is bothering him? Let him know that YOU have noticed this issue....if he thinks you're speaking on Jessi's behalf for her, then you may not get an honest answer from him-and then things will be OBVIOUSLY awkward the next time the 3 of you are around eachother.
Just explain to him that you are concerned and don't want to feel as though you'll be put in a position of choosing or taking sides.
There may just be a simple misunderstanding that can easily be worked out with out anyone getting hurt or embarrassed.
2006-10-27 04:12:07 · answer #1 · answered by secret_oktober_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok..one thing for sure..if sam doesnt realize that hes been ignoring jessi..u should tell him..ask him y..
if he said that he cant go along with jessi..avoid both of em to meet up..
that was what i did when both of my best friends were in fight..i became the middle person..
good luck!~
2006-10-27 13:15:03 · answer #2 · answered by rayna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋