A guy and gal love each other. her parents are against love marriage and he is younger than her.they have good job and want to live together.He is having one elder brother who is not married yet. and his parents also against their marriage, coz their thought is gal is older than him...coz both parents culture is like that...so wats ur opinion ???
2006-10-27 03:55:40 · 8 answers · asked by hello 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Age does not denote maturity.. in fact, when in love, age does not matter. Advise him to listen to his parents and learn exactly the reason why they consider the age a factor, not to marry her. Then tell him to explain to them the reasons why he wanted to marry her. Parents are only for the good of their kids. Surely, when learn why the son wanted the girl , then they will agree.
2006-10-27 09:14:10 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents have a way of knowing things we don't
My mother knew that both of my ex's were not right for me...
I spent over 25 yrs wasted on those guys.... I am now single.
Listen to Mum and Dad.....they do have some knowledge of the world....
It's so hard to accept parents being right....
be well..
2006-10-27 04:03:00 · answer #2 · answered by Babsygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The parents aren't the ones in this relationship and if you both love each other, do what you need to do to be together.
DON'T NOT be together because of them. they are not in this relationship you both are, and you two should be happy.
They'll get over it, it may take years, but at least you two will be happy, and that is what counts.
2006-10-27 04:00:40 · answer #3 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
parent will not accept anyone if you me they.if you love each other that all that matters eventually the parents come around a few years later.But making sure you're old enough and really think this through.goodluck.
Remember being in love is the best feeling ever.
2006-10-27 04:09:23 · answer #4 · answered by love me like me hate me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not in it for the parents, your in it together.. shouldn't matter what the parents think.. sure they might be disappointed but they'll need to deal with it.. Plus you got each other now..
2006-10-27 03:59:38 · answer #5 · answered by crazgrss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you the two love one yet another very lots then i recommend you adult males flow forward and marry yet formerly doing that. attempt convincing his mom and dad, quite his mom. communicate them nicely and attempt to electrify his mom and notwithstanding it is tell them for sure. His mom seems having a unfavorable tips about you and you may convert into beneficial recommendations. If after doing all this, she does no longer budge.. then you definately can wait till she passes away and marry one yet another or flow against her needs and marry one yet another.
2016-10-16 11:22:33 · answer #6 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody is good enough for our children. My opinion is that your bf choose you. It doesnt matter that his parents dont approve. At least, it shouldnt.
2006-10-27 03:58:24 · answer #7 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares what their parents think, if they r in love then thats all that counts. they should do what they want to do, not what wil please others :)
2006-10-27 03:59:53 · answer #8 · answered by the 3 peas :D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋