My girlfriend wants to have sex with me, and I am temted. If I go through with it without inolving my husband is it cheating.
2006-10-27 03:48:54 · 56 answers · asked by dan d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ewwwww..of course its cheating
2006-10-27 04:43:25 · answer #1 · answered by Billie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That all depends on your husbands point of view. Personally, I wouldn't have a problem with it. I think it would be amazingly erotic if my wife was "tempted" to have sex with one of her girlfriends.
Ask him what he thinks about it. If he thinks its cheating, then it is cheating and you should respect his feelings about it. But I would bet you any amount of money he will like the idea. If he does, it will likely take your physical relationship to an all time new high!
But the key here is communication. You have to ask him and you have to respect his feelings either way. I say go for it girl!
2006-10-27 03:58:53 · answer #2 · answered by Desiderata of Happiness 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel if your husband has sex with one of his buddies? Having sex with someone other than your spouse is cheating, no matter if the other person is male or female. If you love your husband avoid the temptation, it that woman is really your "friend" she wouldn't be trying to destroy your marriage.
Conclusion: Don't go there.
Good Luck!
2006-10-27 03:53:40 · answer #3 · answered by White 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is cheating. You might want to ask your husband how he would feel if you made love to a woman, which I think every woman should experience, You might be surprised by his answer.
and then if you get a negative reponse from him and you still want to go through, be very careful and decreet. But becareful if you love your husband every time you cheat you are risking the relationship with your husband
2006-10-27 04:21:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. Would you care if your husband was doing some other guy? If you involve this other girl and really like it better than your husband, now what. Stay with one person. Getting other people involved is taking to much to the bed with sometimes bad results.
2006-10-27 03:52:46 · answer #5 · answered by Tommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 23:16:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband will NEVER know. Some men get bent out of shape over it, like its really cheating cheating. But some want to be involved also. Which category does your husband fall under? Because you are a woman and you are entitled to have friends that are girls, your husband will never suspect it. Unless he catches you in the act. But if your planning to leave your husband then he deserves to know why.
2006-10-27 03:52:54 · answer #7 · answered by Rica 82 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes, you are cheating... sex is sex no matter who your partner is.
If you affections are not there for your husband anymore perhaps you should get out of the relationship. It is not fair to either of you to stay together if one person feels the need to stray.
For whatever reason it is, you are not being faithful to the one you are wed to. Break up before you break the vow.....
2006-10-27 03:52:38 · answer #8 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your even tempted your marriage is already in trouble. Check yourself. And it doesn't matter if it's male, female or alien. If they aren't your spouse it's considered cheating. Get counseling fast. Obviously you have a sexual orientation that you need to deal with. It sounds to me that your bi sexual. Is this something that your husband already knows about with you? If so then you and your husband need to have a talk. Explain what is happening.
2006-10-27 04:12:26 · answer #9 · answered by mshellrosie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is still cheating! If your husband was having sex with another man would you consider it cheating?
2006-10-27 03:51:07 · answer #10 · answered by cmsmith114 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is cheating if your husband is not okay with you doing it. You need to think about how much you want to do this and how much your friend.husband man to you. If it is just a fleeting fancy, you should not go thru with it. Does your husband know?
2006-10-27 03:55:29 · answer #11 · answered by Bridal Shower 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋