I am so broken heart. He said we may need not to be togther and then he said yes we will not fight again from now on. (we are on long distance) This is not the first time he wants to leave me. He is blaming me for this fight and telling me this is all because of me he is again thinking to leave me. The reason he was upset because i disconneted my phone for one day after he said some mean things tow days ago. I dont know. He does say mean things, when i take action and then he blames me for fight. Please help i am so sad write now. Is he is gonna leave me again.
2006-10-27 03:46:23 · 3 answers · asked by ALMAS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If he has been mean and suggested breaking up before it may be time to move on. If a relationship like that continues too long it will destroy your self-esteem. Gather what strength you have and break up with him. If he really wants you he will fight for you (not against you) and if he doesnt then it wasnt meant to be to begin with and you will find the right person eventually.
Good Luck
2006-10-27 03:54:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, you might want to reconsider if this is the kind of relationship you want to be in, where you are always blamed for things that go wrong. A relationship is a partnership where the two communicate together.
It would be ideal to sit down with him and explain why you disconnected the phone and hope that he will understand. If he is going to constantly talk about leaving, it may appear that he has little interest in "staying" in the relationship in the first place. He should want to "work it out" instead of fleeing.
Long distance relationships, like any other relationship, takes dedication and hard work on the part of both participants. The "blame game" will only worsen matters.
I wish you the best of luck but I don't know that I would want to stay with someone who was constantly reminding me that he will be leaving. :( It would be better to have someone committed, who wants to "work" through any and all problems - not take flight when it gets stormy.
2006-10-27 19:04:16 · answer #2 · answered by terryoulboub 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow!It seems you are very desperate for him.He is saying mean things to you...blaming you for fights he started....always threatening to leave you...and all this when you guys are not even married yet!!I assure you I have never seen a more hopeless girl like you,but then again,I don't know how one feels when he/she falls in love with someone.My advice would be to tell him to go *** himself and then start looking for someone who is more caring and understanding.......
2006-10-27 11:16:27 · answer #3 · answered by wild_rebel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋