2006-10-27 02:40:14 · 16 answers · asked by katrina_ponti 6 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
No.
Love knows nothing of plans.
2006-10-27 02:59:14 · answer #1 · answered by Bender 6 · 6⤊ 1⤋
addicted to love.can't be helped but it can be altered
your question could be thought of as possible yes: you can help, carefully look to see if this could also lead to you closely desiring the same help yourself in a different level or way that makes what you do provide a kind of rescuers roll this has a real tragdy for a curtain call at the end of the folly. most believe they are truly encouraged to help when only they could be annoyed or a regulator.!! gosh!! all you want to do is help, you can help anyone but the independents, their so stuborn they waste all the time and nobody has that much too waste and they don't want it anyway so help all u can it the american way
2006-10-28 00:54:00 · answer #2 · answered by bev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a good question. They say that proximity is the thing that determines who you fall in love with--like if you keep having all the same classes with the same schmuck then that's who you fall in love with. So that takes a lot of the choice out of it, i think. But you are probably asking about falling in love with inappropriate people. I don't think people fall in love on that level, I think it has to do with pure animal attraction
2006-10-27 09:56:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sadly, when we do follow our hearts and shouldn't be, we do get hurt and so do the ones involved. If you have fallen in love with someone...I hope the both of you are availble and no kids are involved. Its taken me about 5 years to get over something that never should have happened. You can help who you fall in love with, but at all costs, try to avoid it if others are involved.
2006-10-27 09:56:05 · answer #4 · answered by gabby5 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I be live that following in love is a choice in regards to who you go out with and who you are attracted to.
If everyman that you meet is a loser and works at Wal-mart then stop dating men that work at wal mart try target.
If everyman that beats women seem to find your front door stop dating men who have mommy issues are come from abusive homes.
Often time we want people who are no good and keep repeating the pattern because we are comfortable or these are the supposed people that can only love us
If we change some of our habit and try and meet people who are good for us then yes we can help who we fall in love with because we will love ourselves
2006-10-27 10:01:40 · answer #5 · answered by Cherry Berry 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Seems to be that we can't just as we cannot make ourselves love someone. Who really knows the answer. Sometimes the person that is probably best for us is not the "one". And then we choose the one that isn't best for us. It can get very complicated.
2006-10-27 09:58:47 · answer #6 · answered by Maggie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. I think best by becoming the individual we are and flourishing as that individual. In that manner we better choose our lover and mate rather than find ourself victim of fulfilling a need (whether known or unknown) in our life.
2006-10-27 09:55:14 · answer #7 · answered by MLK II 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
no we can't help who we fall in love with.but we can choose who we want to live our life with.
2006-10-27 10:06:05 · answer #8 · answered by mary t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emotions defy logic.
The rest is self-explanatory.
2006-10-27 12:03:34 · answer #9 · answered by Saffren 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YEP YEP... GRAND OPENING GRAND CLOSING....
IN other words we can, and we have the will power to chose to not follow our hearts... No matter what it is saying, it is ok to love someone and not be with them...
2006-10-27 09:43:41 · answer #10 · answered by mpkardinal 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋