there is never any foreplay and there is a ten year age difference
2006-10-27 02:27:35 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, I'm pretty sure the age difference is not as important as the relational change that happened when you moved in with eachother. It may be that he feels that he has "won" you, therefore the chase is not as exciting to him. Discuss your feelings with him, not as a complaint, but as someone who is confident in who you are and that you want to continue to share those previously wonderful experiences!
2006-10-27 02:31:02 · answer #1 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flat out tell him to move back out because you need to find someone that will have some good sex with again.. And tell him that he was before he moved in.. The age difference has nothing to do with the problem..he was apparently looking for some where to come home to at night so he wasn't alone and that is not all that there is to a partner ship.. Just don't marry him.. you won't be happy without the sex in your life..You are too young.
2006-10-27 02:34:00 · answer #2 · answered by Sandy F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him exactly as you worded it here. Be kind, and generous, and if there is not an overcomeable reason and a willingness to overcome it, just move on. If he is ten years older his sexual appetite may have waned. This may bother him but most likely, if he has not addressed it, it does not. If he is not bothered by the changes, he may well be relieved. So move on with your life after discussion. But always, always, always be kind.
2006-10-27 02:31:40 · answer #3 · answered by Shari Savage 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the move was a bad idea, any chance one of you can get a job transfer? Just get on the bus gus, make a new plan stan.
2006-10-27 02:33:49 · answer #4 · answered by tom_nearhood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you discuss it with him? A 10 yr age difference shouldn't be important. There must be a problem with him somehow.
2006-10-27 02:30:23 · answer #5 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him and let him know, bring it up casually tell him things like " you know what I miss....", or " I love when you...."we need to communicate the good and the bad to keep the spark alive.
2006-10-27 02:29:42 · answer #6 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
short way..tell him that you have a vaginismus or some disesase like that..that your not gonna be available for sex for 1 year becasuse of the treatment.. And he is gone. it worked for me..my ex girldfriend done that do me and we split..:)
2006-10-27 02:47:44 · answer #7 · answered by cretanturk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A) don't get married if issues do no longer advance. B) looks such as you have stated it. talking approximately it won't make her attractive. it could make her offended, it make her dissatisfied, it could make her sense responsible. None of those quite get you everywhere. i do no longer think of she knows why her force has dropped, so quite ... what's there to speak approximately? C) it may be effective if she'd take HERSELF to a doctor, yet I doubt she would be able to - she seems - like maximum individuals in this occasion - to think of each little thing may be large in case you are able to desire to easily supply up desiring intercourse. D) you're putting the incorrect variety of rigidity on her. Its one element to assume your companion to attempt to fulfill your needs. yet you assume greater then that. you assume her to validate you thru having a stunning orgasm and make you sense like a large lover. That rigidity isn't honest, and not going to assist. learn how to settle for the intercourse it quite is 'basically for you' for what it is. rejoice with it, do it the way you want, and be joyful approximately it. If _you_ want to get off, _you_ have a sturdy time and he or she is happy to renowned you had a important time and are happy, flow with that. That takes some rigidity off her, and _maybe_ she'll locate she gets into it often times too. D) once you physique of recommendations her for intercourse, attempt to be beneficial, and joyful notwithstanding happens. Sulking would not tend to coach women on. E) settle for that there is an substantial risk you will could depart the courting to locate happiness. F) examine your self slightly greater. intercourse is a huge thank you to fulfill such quite some issues - want for intercourse, want for intimacy, could connect with your companion, etc. nicely, on condition that its no longer working so nicely perfect now, attempt to interrupt your needs up slightly. looks like in case you want intercourse, you are able to often times get intercourse - and that i guess in case you're taking the rigidity off her to accomplish, you are able to in all risk get so lots greater intercourse then you definately get now. So rejoice with the giggling, rejoice with the kissing and hugging, rejoice with the time jointly, and while she submits sexually, rejoice with that too. you do no longer could get the intercourse and intimacy on the comparable time if that would not artwork for her.
2016-10-16 11:19:06 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that foreplay is important and you start some foreplay yourself
2006-10-27 02:29:27 · answer #9 · answered by big ray 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way, its just like being married but you at least can escape now while you can.
2006-10-27 02:30:48 · answer #10 · answered by mrfoxhorn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋