This man is also your friend.You know his wife and you do some babysitting for them
2006-10-27 02:23:32 · 25 answers · asked by JUSEve 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if your husband is not the man.... it has nothing to do with you..... stay out of it!
that cloud get very messy with you in the middle
2006-10-27 02:26:13 · answer #1 · answered by 32606 3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you could confront your sister & try to make her quit, she will more than likely get really p!ssed at you.
You could confront the man & try to make him quit, but then he won't let you babysit no more.
You could tell the wife but then she more than likely won't believe you and would never let you in her house again.
Personaly what i would do is get evidence then send to the cheating couple if they keep doing it then,I would send it to the wife. Give them all a wake up call.
Be very careful that they don't know it is you, maybe you could have a friend help you with this.
No matter what you do someone is being hurt.
2006-10-27 03:17:11 · answer #2 · answered by Emptiness 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would advise her to stop. You are in a very difficult situation as you also know the man and his wife too. It perhaps would have been better if you didn't know! Perhaps it Will just fizzle out? However, you don't want to alienate your sister in case this is a long term relationship they are in. Tread with care and be supportive to her if they split up.
2006-10-27 02:26:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Point out that she could eventually be the wronged person and ask her if she would like to be the one cheated on. If he can do this to his wife he can do it to the next and next person. He obviously only cares for his own personal well being and not his wife´s and also his kids if he has any. If he gets found out he deserves everything he gets from being kicked out of the marriage home to losing control of his wage.
2006-10-27 02:28:29 · answer #4 · answered by purdeykings99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is stay out of it. Grown people do exactly what they want to do regardless of what anyone thinks or says. You would only open yourself up to getting hurt if you attempt to influence any of the mentioned individuals. It's hard, but just be there in case your sister needs you.
2006-10-27 02:54:10 · answer #5 · answered by Lynda 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her, and tell her that her illicite relationship could bring YOU a lot of trouble, not to mention all the other people involved!
But if she continues then you'll just have to accept that it's her life and you're not responsible for her.
2006-10-27 02:27:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be pretty pissed off if it was my sister. She is, in a way, taking advantage of you because of your friendship with them. Probably assuming that you wouldn't say anything. She has not many morals to be sleeping with a married man, she has to know he is married because of you. I would give her a good talking to thats for sure.
2006-10-27 02:48:54 · answer #7 · answered by HereweGO 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her how you feel without being judgemental and tell her to think about what she is doing and who she could be hurting. That someday she might be on the other side of this scenario. Then let it go.
2006-10-27 02:28:24 · answer #8 · answered by curiosity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone,,there both consenting adults right? As long as she's not doing your man let her live her life the way she wants and be there for here when she needs you....
2006-10-27 02:30:49 · answer #9 · answered by curious_girl_2_play 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what if you married,and were the victim of adultry how would she console you?Does she not know he pain this inflicts on a family or simply not want better for herself?She would not be proud to see you or your mom broken by your dad cheating.
2006-10-27 02:48:31 · answer #10 · answered by maykithapin 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Best to stay out of it unless she wants to talk. You risk alienating her, the husband, and the wife.
2006-10-27 02:34:08 · answer #11 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋