Signs=attraction, flirting, going out constantly(only together), in contact practically every day (2 month break over summer,live in different towns), tell each other everything, both single since we met (she had a casual fling for a month, but ended it after speaking too me, when I visited her), significant? Gets jealous when I mention other girls, always (90%) gets in touch first, says she never pulls when out, says she don’t fancy anyone etc
Kissed once only, remained close friends since but still do everything above.
P.s. has been acting weird recently (feeling down,tired,can't approach other blokes) towards me recently, gone cold, quiet, not saying much-didn't have argument/falling out. Why?
2006-10-27 02:11:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The last time she opened up, she told me that:1)She cares about me a lot,2)thinks about me a lot,3)can only open up fully to me (no one else), also told me many personal stuff from her past 4)really enjoys spending time with me (one on one),5)she only wants to txt me at certain times,i.e after a long day/travelling home. When I told her I felt the same (as above), she said she don't see me in that way and nothing more would happen! Couldn’t give a reason why not-
Would 6 months be too long? Am I wasting my time? Anyway to find out once and for all?--talking don't help, as she says nothing there.
Asking AGAIN, as I've met someone and there could be a possibility for more, should I close this door for good? If I go quiet for a week(no replies to txts) wud she feel offended?What wud she think?
2006-10-27 02:11:20 · update #1
man it already sounds like your in a relationship, what you need to do is let her know how you feel, tell her you are willing to risk your friendship, because it's would be easier to not have her, than to never try, go for broke.
2006-10-27 02:15:22 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her at all times. If you would rather want her than this other possibility, tell her. Let her know that she has competition, that might do the trick and you will know if you stand a chance.
Maybe she's not able to tell you everything. Maybe she wants someone she can't have and doesn't feel comfortable talking about it. Maybe she also has someone as "possibility" and is only keeping you warm in case that doesn't work out.
Maybe she only wants to be your friend.
She is the only one who can answer this question.
2006-10-27 02:16:37 · answer #2 · answered by IC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all you have ever needed out of your courting is to take it to a various point then you definately have not have been given any decision yet to describe the way you sense it quite is available which you will face dropping her friendship . while you're happy adequate to proceed as buddies then i might .. by way of fact while you're meant to be jointly then at last it is going to ensue . i individually might txt her .. tell her how i felt .. then depart it .. dont txt her returned untill she contacts you sturdy good fortune to you the two .. bear in recommendations dont enable her use you as an emotional crutch while issues arnt going her way .. you have a perfect to have a loving courting if its nt along with her then somone else xx
2016-10-16 11:18:54 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she clearly wanted you to make the first move and you havent, thats why she's acting cold, if you dont reply to her texts she'll probably be very offended, but she'll get over it. you have obviously taken far too long to read the signs and now she thinks you were not interested in taking things further.
She's better off moving on I'm afraid.
2006-10-27 02:47:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't keep waiting for her forever. I would go ahead with this new girl and see what happens. Your friend has had plenty of chances to get in there with you but if it hasn't happenend by now chancs are it never will.
2006-10-27 02:14:44 · answer #5 · answered by Fluffy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never said if you want to be with her ,I think you should make up your mind but it sounds as if you both get on well so before you start things with this new one...be 100% sure !!!
2006-10-27 02:15:08 · answer #6 · answered by IloveMarmite 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should forget bout her n jus b mates wid her , as she doesnt seem 2 want u too badly.
def go for the new one, if u hang about for the other one this one may go. good luck. x
2006-10-27 02:15:55 · answer #7 · answered by sweetlipsy69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like this girl is a really big tease! but if you like her hang in there and do sweet stuff for her...maybe she likes you and is afraid of commitment
2006-10-27 02:15:22 · answer #8 · answered by Timmy's girl!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
didn't read the whole thing...too long
long story short, YOU can bust a move, too...don't wait for someone else to make a move if you have feelings.
2006-10-27 02:13:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dump her and get on with your life
2006-10-27 02:34:27 · answer #10 · answered by big H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋