When we finally have it, she doesnt want to do this or that, allways something hurts her, doesnt like oral. what is happening with her?
when Im near her, she doesnt like if I touch her a s s, or any part, she is allways tired or in bad mood
2006-10-27 02:10:40 · 18 answers · asked by ROBERTO T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i'm sorry, but it sounds like she is just not into you.
you need to discuss this problem with her and ask her straight out if she loves you or not. tell her by her actions that she is telling you that she does not.
if she is willing, you should go to marriage counseling. this would be a good place for her to feel safe enough to tell you the truth, and maybe work out the issues that are causing her to act this way.
good luck and i hope everything works out.
2006-10-27 02:15:24 · answer #1 · answered by melinda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me buddy. She is having sex with other man.
You should hire a detective if you can afford one. Or try to find out what's going on. Check her phone records, her car mileage (if she has any). Be a BIG BROTER.
If she is cheating on you then collect all evidences before applying for divorce. Since the law favors women in such situation (like you will lose 50% or more of your property if you didn't cheat) so the proofs will help you to keep the ball in your custody during court hearings. You can hire very obnoxious who will insult her in the court hearings with proofs.
2006-10-27 09:35:13 · answer #2 · answered by Observer 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think a woman may not have sex before. But I think your wife doesn't enjoy love-making, so whenever you try to touch her, she gives excuses to say she's either tired or in a bad mood. Try to bring her to see a doctor and let the doctor help you couple.
2006-10-27 09:14:25 · answer #3 · answered by PoshBerries 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well how are you sexually? Ask her sit down and ask her what is wrong? If she still does not want to talk then write her a letter asking her what is wrong? and how can you fix it? When i was married i didnt like having sex with my husband because i was a virgin when i married and he was rough and did not know what he was doing...never in tune with my body needless to say because he never listened when i told him what i liked in sex I left him ....But if she was really sexual with you before yah got married then something is wrong she might not be interested in you anymore maybe she likes someone else a female loves sex just like a man do when the man knows her body like she does....Take one day a friday maybe and tell her you want to spoil her massager her give her roses and take it easy when she wine and dine her trust me liquor always gets a woman horny always it never fails get her tipsy enough she feels real loose around you....Then take her home kiss her really kiss her touch her body caress her body then MAKE LOVE TO HER real soft and nice get her real wet and nice stroke it ask what she wants and how she wants it keep your stamina up because her will be up and take it easy so it wont hurt her give her oral rememeber its all about her......and once you do it all right for her and make her come trust me she will remember how you gave it to her the night before and she will ask you for more////TO please a woman you have think about her and what she will like you cant be selfish you have to treat her body like she will treat it GOOD LUCK
2006-10-27 09:20:08 · answer #4 · answered by melanni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on her age. Have you tried talking about it? Young women sometimes view sex as a "chore" and they resent having to do it. Middle age women have become more comfortable with their bodies and their own sexuality so they enjoy sex more. If she's over 35 and doesn't want sex, it's probably you my friend. If she's younger , it's probably not anything you've done. Encourage her to seek counseling.
2006-10-27 10:05:17 · answer #5 · answered by Lynda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it's possible. i was a virgin when i met my boyfriend and he's a fantastic lover but i just happen to not fancy sex (except maybe a week before my period). but i'm really affectionate with him and i love holding and kissing him. just not very fond of the actual act. so don't create more problems by assuming the worst. talk it out. though you might have to go without more often...
2006-10-27 09:39:27 · answer #6 · answered by janicebks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
speaking from experience, yes it is possible. i was the same way with my ex husband. not trying to hurt your feelings, but she probably isn't satisfied. and there may be other issues in your relationship causing this. like if you argue all of the time. sounds to me like she just isn't happy. like i said. i was in the same situation and i left my husband and am now with someone else. and things are just the opposite.
2006-10-27 09:22:43 · answer #7 · answered by tmhb1087 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many factors come into play in determining why women do not wanna engage in intimacy. Things like low self-esteem, low libido, stress are factors. Some women just lose their desire and do not want it anymore
2006-10-27 09:22:36 · answer #8 · answered by Jim G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get a new girlfriend. No man should have to live with that kind of abuse. Trust me, as time goes on it dosent get any better.
2006-10-27 10:55:11 · answer #9 · answered by setyoustraight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry she has sex, but not with you, why else would she be acting like this, she is already taken care of... if you were smart you would know at least from time to time she would be like, ok i haven't had sex in a while and go nutz, but if she is constantly like this then dont worry she is cheating, sorry dude
2006-10-27 09:13:27 · answer #10 · answered by J from O 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋